You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
He didn't do everything against the book, he was very natural and funny and used straight confidence and it intimidated them. What basically happened here was a guy who was on the looks spectrum hotter than all 3 of those girls combined, those were 6's and i could see him with a 9, he probably looked at them like... "i'll give these ugs a lil convo" and from that frame you should always succeed...
Well, we could argue about if she is an HB9, but she has that b!tch attitude of an HB9. That´s why she tells Kyle to fvck off.Cod3r said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I gotta agree. I actually liked his style alot. Its not that he went against the book exactly, its just that he was REAL. The first guy came off as fake and ****y. He actually did follow the bible alot more then the second guy but it just wasnt working out on my opinion. He had to ASK for a kiss....TWICE....Cod3r said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
FaLse, plain and simple. Also no one is accusing him of being lame, just putting things in perspective bro... I definitely give him credit, but he didn't shock me... good looking guy and girls go crazy, its pretty much a simple reality.
agreedTillTheEndOfTime said:Wow....so girls ARE attracted to GOOD LOOKING guys after all!*GASP*
Do you think if some indian guy with a strong accent went up to these white girls and said the EXACT SAME crap with the EXACT SAME attitude that they would get the same response? No.
Talk about the bible or whatever as much as you want. They were good looking guys talking to girls within their league. All you need is a little bit of confidence.
The 2nd guy was great. thats! how u gotta do it. ::applause::WestCoast1492 said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.