That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
He didn't do everything against the book, he was very natural and funny and used straight confidence and it intimidated them. What basically happened here was a guy who was on the looks spectrum hotter than all 3 of those girls combined, those were 6's and i could see him with a 9, he probably looked at them like... "i'll give these ugs a lil convo" and from that frame you should always succeed...
Well, we could argue about if she is an HB9, but she has that b!tch attitude of an HB9. That´s why she tells Kyle to fvck off.Cod3r said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I gotta agree. I actually liked his style alot. Its not that he went against the book exactly, its just that he was REAL. The first guy came off as fake and ****y. He actually did follow the bible alot more then the second guy but it just wasnt working out on my opinion. He had to ASK for a kiss....TWICE....Cod3r said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
FaLse, plain and simple. Also no one is accusing him of being lame, just putting things in perspective bro... I definitely give him credit, but he didn't shock me... good looking guy and girls go crazy, its pretty much a simple reality.
agreedTillTheEndOfTime said:Wow....so girls ARE attracted to GOOD LOOKING guys after all!*GASP*
Do you think if some indian guy with a strong accent went up to these white girls and said the EXACT SAME crap with the EXACT SAME attitude that they would get the same response? No.
Talk about the bible or whatever as much as you want. They were good looking guys talking to girls within their league. All you need is a little bit of confidence.
The 2nd guy was great. thats! how u gotta do it. ::applause::WestCoast1492 said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.