I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
He didn't do everything against the book, he was very natural and funny and used straight confidence and it intimidated them. What basically happened here was a guy who was on the looks spectrum hotter than all 3 of those girls combined, those were 6's and i could see him with a 9, he probably looked at them like... "i'll give these ugs a lil convo" and from that frame you should always succeed...
Well, we could argue about if she is an HB9, but she has that b!tch attitude of an HB9. That´s why she tells Kyle to fvck off.Cod3r said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I gotta agree. I actually liked his style alot. Its not that he went against the book exactly, its just that he was REAL. The first guy came off as fake and ****y. He actually did follow the bible alot more then the second guy but it just wasnt working out on my opinion. He had to ASK for a kiss....TWICE....Cod3r said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
FaLse, plain and simple. Also no one is accusing him of being lame, just putting things in perspective bro... I definitely give him credit, but he didn't shock me... good looking guy and girls go crazy, its pretty much a simple reality.
agreedTillTheEndOfTime said:Wow....so girls ARE attracted to GOOD LOOKING guys after all!*GASP*
Do you think if some indian guy with a strong accent went up to these white girls and said the EXACT SAME crap with the EXACT SAME attitude that they would get the same response? No.
Talk about the bible or whatever as much as you want. They were good looking guys talking to girls within their league. All you need is a little bit of confidence.
The 2nd guy was great. thats! how u gotta do it. ::applause::WestCoast1492 said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.