You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
He didn't do everything against the book, he was very natural and funny and used straight confidence and it intimidated them. What basically happened here was a guy who was on the looks spectrum hotter than all 3 of those girls combined, those were 6's and i could see him with a 9, he probably looked at them like... "i'll give these ugs a lil convo" and from that frame you should always succeed...
Well, we could argue about if she is an HB9, but she has that b!tch attitude of an HB9. That´s why she tells Kyle to fvck off.Cod3r said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I gotta agree. I actually liked his style alot. Its not that he went against the book exactly, its just that he was REAL. The first guy came off as fake and ****y. He actually did follow the bible alot more then the second guy but it just wasnt working out on my opinion. He had to ASK for a kiss....TWICE....Cod3r said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
FaLse, plain and simple. Also no one is accusing him of being lame, just putting things in perspective bro... I definitely give him credit, but he didn't shock me... good looking guy and girls go crazy, its pretty much a simple reality.
agreedTillTheEndOfTime said:Wow....so girls ARE attracted to GOOD LOOKING guys after all!*GASP*
Do you think if some indian guy with a strong accent went up to these white girls and said the EXACT SAME crap with the EXACT SAME attitude that they would get the same response? No.
Talk about the bible or whatever as much as you want. They were good looking guys talking to girls within their league. All you need is a little bit of confidence.
The 2nd guy was great. thats! how u gotta do it. ::applause::WestCoast1492 said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.