That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ThanksRollo Tomassi said:Uh-uh,..not taking the bait.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That's not a bad point, actually. I agree a lot of these girls do seem pretty happy. I was thinking in terms of their promiscuity having its origins in mental issues, not that they acted all wacky necessarily. Their wackiness *is* their promiscuity. They need the constant sexual approval of different men to feel good about themselves.the biitches who get diick the most and get all the attention from the men and me included, cause I slept with a couple of them, those are the ones who for the most part act sane at work, because they happy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'll judge!C-quenced said:THis thread is ripe pickin's for the relativists who just cannot help themselves....I predict it will be hijacked by all those who want to nitpick in $2 words about what "loose" means and how it is a value judgement, and what constitutes "unstable"..and why 'good' girls do hang out in bars and why the "quality woman" is a moralist's delusion and ...yawn...
Ahh, never mind.
I didn't intend on judging anyone. I'm not the kind to do so. I just couldn't think of a better term. All I was asking is if anyone has also noticed that these women have got some mental issues that seriously need to be worked out. Or is it just me seeing things?
all females are mentally unstable due to estrogen.. some just do a better job of managing and hiding their madness than othes..C-quenced said:I don't know if it's just me or if anyone else has noticed it as well but are women who tend to be on the "loose" side mentally unstable?
yeh desperation causes men to act crazy.. but women act crazy even though they are having sex offered to them all the time.. so whats your point.C-quenced said:have u ever noticed men who don't get any action tend to be mentally unstable?
Thats actually very true. Possibly even the male equivalent. I'm living proof so maybe I shouldn't be too quick to say these chicks are psycho.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.