You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ThanksRollo Tomassi said:Uh-uh,..not taking the bait.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That's not a bad point, actually. I agree a lot of these girls do seem pretty happy. I was thinking in terms of their promiscuity having its origins in mental issues, not that they acted all wacky necessarily. Their wackiness *is* their promiscuity. They need the constant sexual approval of different men to feel good about themselves.the biitches who get diick the most and get all the attention from the men and me included, cause I slept with a couple of them, those are the ones who for the most part act sane at work, because they happy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'll judge!C-quenced said:THis thread is ripe pickin's for the relativists who just cannot help themselves....I predict it will be hijacked by all those who want to nitpick in $2 words about what "loose" means and how it is a value judgement, and what constitutes "unstable"..and why 'good' girls do hang out in bars and why the "quality woman" is a moralist's delusion and ...yawn...
Ahh, never mind.
I didn't intend on judging anyone. I'm not the kind to do so. I just couldn't think of a better term. All I was asking is if anyone has also noticed that these women have got some mental issues that seriously need to be worked out. Or is it just me seeing things?
all females are mentally unstable due to estrogen.. some just do a better job of managing and hiding their madness than othes..C-quenced said:I don't know if it's just me or if anyone else has noticed it as well but are women who tend to be on the "loose" side mentally unstable?
yeh desperation causes men to act crazy.. but women act crazy even though they are having sex offered to them all the time.. so whats your point.C-quenced said:have u ever noticed men who don't get any action tend to be mentally unstable?
Thats actually very true. Possibly even the male equivalent. I'm living proof so maybe I shouldn't be too quick to say these chicks are psycho.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.