"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I don't know if it's just me or if anyone else has noticed it as well but are women who tend to be on the "loose" side mentally unstable?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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THis thread is ripe pickin's for the relativists who just cannot help themselves....I predict it will be hijacked by all those who want to nitpick in $2 words about what "loose" means and how it is a value judgement, and what constitutes "unstable"..and why 'good' girls do hang out in bars and why the "quality woman" is a moralist's delusion and ...yawn...
Ahh, never mind.
 

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Uh-uh,..not taking the bait.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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THis thread is ripe pickin's for the relativists who just cannot help themselves....I predict it will be hijacked by all those who want to nitpick in $2 words about what "loose" means and how it is a value judgement, and what constitutes "unstable"..and why 'good' girls do hang out in bars and why the "quality woman" is a moralist's delusion and ...yawn...
Ahh, never mind.


I didn't intend on judging anyone. I'm not the kind to do so. I just couldn't think of a better term. All I was asking is if anyone has also noticed that these women have got some mental issues that seriously need to be worked out. Or is it just me seeing things?
 

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I'll jump in and agree with you. A lot of times women that are sexually promiscuous have been molested when they were younger. Tell me that doesn't cause some mental issues.
 

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Umm....Have you ever boticed that they ALL have some mental issues, whether they are loose or not? Cuz, I have.
 

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I also agree. A lot of loose women use sex to fill a void, and that void is usually generated from mental issues caused by a variety of factors. These can be anything from domestic violence, neglect, being abused, etc.

Unfortunately there is very little that can really be done to help these women, but some of them find acceptance through faith and religious cults... The born again virgins.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The OP has a point. The chicks that are the most promiscuous and great in the sack tend to be the crazy ones.
 

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No not really. In fact, where I work, the biitches who get diick the most and get all the attention from the men and me included, cause I slept with a couple of them, those are the ones who for the most part act sane at work, because they happy. The ones who are fugly are always do subversive shiit to get back at the pretty ones. That's not to say all women don't love drama. Drama gets their pvssies wet.
 

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have u ever noticed men who don't get any action tend to be mentally unstable?
 

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the biitches who get diick the most and get all the attention from the men and me included, cause I slept with a couple of them, those are the ones who for the most part act sane at work, because they happy.
That's not a bad point, actually. I agree a lot of these girls do seem pretty happy. I was thinking in terms of their promiscuity having its origins in mental issues, not that they acted all wacky necessarily. Their wackiness *is* their promiscuity. They need the constant sexual approval of different men to feel good about themselves.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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THis thread is ripe pickin's for the relativists who just cannot help themselves....I predict it will be hijacked by all those who want to nitpick in $2 words about what "loose" means and how it is a value judgement, and what constitutes "unstable"..and why 'good' girls do hang out in bars and why the "quality woman" is a moralist's delusion and ...yawn...
Ahh, never mind.


I didn't intend on judging anyone. I'm not the kind to do so. I just couldn't think of a better term. All I was asking is if anyone has also noticed that these women have got some mental issues that seriously need to be worked out. Or is it just me seeing things?
I'll judge!

Yes, these kinds of women tend to be wacked.
 

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the crazy ones are crazy in bed, they have no way to feel GUILT so they don't feel anything is tabu.

i say, because most girls who cannot remain in a LTR because they are crazy discover the beauty of a STR and sex, so to have fun quickerr.. there you go. crazy girls know as soon as the gig is up, the gig is up and the guy knows the secret.. i suppose?
 

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have u ever noticed men who don't get any action tend to be mentally unstable?

Thats actually very true. Possibly even the male equivalent. I'm living proof so maybe I shouldn't be too quick to say these chicks are psycho.
 

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I don't know if it's just me or if anyone else has noticed it as well but are women who tend to be on the "loose" side mentally unstable?
all females are mentally unstable due to estrogen.. some just do a better job of managing and hiding their madness than othes..
 

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have u ever noticed men who don't get any action tend to be mentally unstable?

Thats actually very true. Possibly even the male equivalent. I'm living proof so maybe I shouldn't be too quick to say these chicks are psycho.
yeh desperation causes men to act crazy.. but women act crazy even though they are having sex offered to them all the time.. so whats your point.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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