I am taking this female friend of my mine to the prom, and I'm not sure how far we can go. I'm not sure if nothing is going to happen, or if we are going to hook up, or possibly sex. Is there any wayI can find out, and if so, to prepare for it?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Prom Q #1
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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That question will be answered when you hit the post-prom parties...just show her a good time, but don't hang around with her too much or she may become uninterested depending on how good your game is. Good luck.
punkrockpylot
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ATTENTION: DATE RAPE IS A BAD THING.Originally posted by icallug
depends on her
your game
.....alcohol
you cant expect anything out of her. just go with the flow
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I think I remember reading somewhere that 80% of the girls that go to prom want to have sex that night, or feel obligated to. So I say you have an 80% chance.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If alcohol = date rape, then the majority of girls at my college get raped several times a week. There is a difference between a girl being barely conscious (which is bad) and a little tipsy (which at a party is to be expected).Originally posted by punkrockpylot
ATTENTION: DATE RAPE IS A BAD THING.
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punkrockpylot
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yeah, but if you lean on alcohol as a crutch, because you dont have much of a chance otherwise, its a bad thing...Originally posted by blienk
If alcohol = date rape, then the majority of girls at my college get raped several times a week. There is a difference between a girl being barely conscious (which is bad) and a little tipsy (which at a party is to be expected).
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well, i wouldnt have sex with my guy friend on prom night, so i say your chances arent high at all. even with alcohol. Girls just dont sleep with their guy friends. no girl i have ever known has done that. so dont expect it. and if she wants to, you also have your friendship to think of, but if she wants to, go ahead. just be safe.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.