QuadDeuces
Master Don Juan
You live in Florida?
You look very pale, why don't you get more sunshine?
You look very pale, why don't you get more sunshine?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I will get spray tan.You live in Florida?
You look very pale, why don't you get more sunshine?
And a hair transplant.You have a little of the Frankenstein forehead going on due to the receding hairline, but your lambo should take care of that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
A modest amount of sun is actually healthy, much more so than spray tan.I will get spray tan.
I've known way too many people that got skin cancer.
what about big musclesMy Photofeeler scores still aren't that great.
64%, 25%, and the others were in the high teens.
The inner game. Communication, confidence, etc. That is the most important part of the equation.What is head game?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is your opinion. Guess what? Other people have other opinions.I have no problem with support and positive messages, yet no one here has been honest to you.
You look sharp, clothes look good, but
You get an ugly lady and you put makeup on here. What is she? An ugly lady with makeup.
You’re not physically good looking, that’s the reality. I’m not a good business man, that’s the reality. Best bet for you to get hot women is get rich and then worry ‘bout women. Forget about that for now, focus on your money, forget online dating too. Unless it’s with the older women 30+ who don’t care about looks as much
I agree with your entire post.This is your opinion. Guess what? Other people have other opinions.
Some hot girls will find Richard ugly. Some will find him average. Some will find his handsome. This applies to everyone.
I find Richard to be average with great potential.
A physique alone can add 2-3 pts to one's SMV. With a physique, tan, and hairstyle, Richard can be an easy 8, even at 5'7".
All a man needs is to be is a 7 and good "game" to get tons of women between 7-9.
Richard, as is, right now, with no additives (physique, tan, hair) can slam 7s if he develops his social acuity.
Your advice is not only not constructive and damaging, but it also deters others from sharing to their photos and seeking assistance because of the potential outlay of the few who are misinformed.
Dood he just needs muscles. Muscles make me from 3/10 to 6/10I have no problem with support and positive messages, yet no one here has been honest to you.
You look sharp, clothes look good, but
You get an ugly lady and you put makeup on here. What is she? An ugly lady with makeup.
You’re not physically good looking, that’s the reality. I’m not a good business man, that’s the reality. Best bet for you to get hot women is get rich and then worry ‘bout women. Forget about that for now, focus on your money, forget online dating too. Unless it’s with the older women 30+ who don’t care about looks as much
I disagree to the extent that presentation and appearance are a big component of attraction insofar as if you are not meeting a woman’s minimum threshold of looks, you’re out regardless of your social skills.I agree with your entire post.
But he is NOT putting in any effort to develop social skills required to bang chicks that are a notch or two over him in the SMV bracket.
All of this materialistic stuff is simply not needed IMO and is a temporary bandaid that is hiding the true problem......his inability to talk to women in a way that creates interest/attraction.
A few new outfits can be a great idea for any of us. But it isnt a problem solver when it comes to women. If it was that easy, everyone would be doing it and cleaning up with 7s-10s
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How old are you? Not my age(Mid 20s). I know that because the way you speak of Richard being an 8, which he is not. I have a nice social circle with plenty of women aged 20-30 all from 7-9 range, no fatties. I have showed all of these pics of Richard and no girl has said he is higher than a 6. 3-5 being the average rating. You can act like you know, or go out in person and show the pictures to all your hot women and ask them to tell you what they think of him. Truth hurts, I have nothing to lose or gain from being honest to a guy so he can adjust accordingly and get what he wantsThis is your opinion. Guess what? Other people have other opinions.
Some hot girls will find Richard ugly. Some will find him average. Some will find his handsome. This applies to everyone.
I find Richard to be average with great potential.
A physique alone can add 2-3 pts to one's SMV. With a physique, tan, and hairstyle, Richard can be an easy 8, even at 5'7".
All a man needs is to be is a 7 and good "game" to get tons of women between 7-9.
Richard, as is, right now, with no additives (physique, tan, hair) can slam 7s if he develops his social acuity.
Your advice is not only not constructive and quite damaging, but it also deters others from sharing their photos and seeking assistance because of the potential outlay of the few who are misinformed. Further, advising someone to make money to attract women is not constructive as it could lead only to a gold-digger/security type of relation (see BigNeil) which is to a detriment to the man for many reasons.
What I stated is not what you allege I had stated. Read again.How old are you? Not my age(Mid 20s). I know that because the way you speak of Richard being an 8, which he is not. I have a nice social circle with plenty of women aged 20-30 all from 7-9 range, no fatties. I have showed all of these pics of Richard and no girl has said he is higher than a 6. 3-5 being the average rating. You can act like you know, or go out in person and show the pictures to all your hot women and ask them to tell you what they think of him. Truth hurts, I have nothing to lose or gain from being honest to a guy so he can adjust accordingly and get what he wants
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.