QuadDeuces
Master Don Juan
You live in Florida?
You look very pale, why don't you get more sunshine?
You look very pale, why don't you get more sunshine?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I will get spray tan.You live in Florida?
You look very pale, why don't you get more sunshine?
And a hair transplant.You have a little of the Frankenstein forehead going on due to the receding hairline, but your lambo should take care of that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A modest amount of sun is actually healthy, much more so than spray tan.I will get spray tan.
I've known way too many people that got skin cancer.
what about big musclesMy Photofeeler scores still aren't that great.
64%, 25%, and the others were in the high teens.
The inner game. Communication, confidence, etc. That is the most important part of the equation.What is head game?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is your opinion. Guess what? Other people have other opinions.I have no problem with support and positive messages, yet no one here has been honest to you.
You look sharp, clothes look good, but
You get an ugly lady and you put makeup on here. What is she? An ugly lady with makeup.
You’re not physically good looking, that’s the reality. I’m not a good business man, that’s the reality. Best bet for you to get hot women is get rich and then worry ‘bout women. Forget about that for now, focus on your money, forget online dating too. Unless it’s with the older women 30+ who don’t care about looks as much
I agree with your entire post.This is your opinion. Guess what? Other people have other opinions.
Some hot girls will find Richard ugly. Some will find him average. Some will find his handsome. This applies to everyone.
I find Richard to be average with great potential.
A physique alone can add 2-3 pts to one's SMV. With a physique, tan, and hairstyle, Richard can be an easy 8, even at 5'7".
All a man needs is to be is a 7 and good "game" to get tons of women between 7-9.
Richard, as is, right now, with no additives (physique, tan, hair) can slam 7s if he develops his social acuity.
Your advice is not only not constructive and damaging, but it also deters others from sharing to their photos and seeking assistance because of the potential outlay of the few who are misinformed.
Dood he just needs muscles. Muscles make me from 3/10 to 6/10I have no problem with support and positive messages, yet no one here has been honest to you.
You look sharp, clothes look good, but
You get an ugly lady and you put makeup on here. What is she? An ugly lady with makeup.
You’re not physically good looking, that’s the reality. I’m not a good business man, that’s the reality. Best bet for you to get hot women is get rich and then worry ‘bout women. Forget about that for now, focus on your money, forget online dating too. Unless it’s with the older women 30+ who don’t care about looks as much
I disagree to the extent that presentation and appearance are a big component of attraction insofar as if you are not meeting a woman’s minimum threshold of looks, you’re out regardless of your social skills.I agree with your entire post.
But he is NOT putting in any effort to develop social skills required to bang chicks that are a notch or two over him in the SMV bracket.
All of this materialistic stuff is simply not needed IMO and is a temporary bandaid that is hiding the true problem......his inability to talk to women in a way that creates interest/attraction.
A few new outfits can be a great idea for any of us. But it isnt a problem solver when it comes to women. If it was that easy, everyone would be doing it and cleaning up with 7s-10s
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
How old are you? Not my age(Mid 20s). I know that because the way you speak of Richard being an 8, which he is not. I have a nice social circle with plenty of women aged 20-30 all from 7-9 range, no fatties. I have showed all of these pics of Richard and no girl has said he is higher than a 6. 3-5 being the average rating. You can act like you know, or go out in person and show the pictures to all your hot women and ask them to tell you what they think of him. Truth hurts, I have nothing to lose or gain from being honest to a guy so he can adjust accordingly and get what he wantsThis is your opinion. Guess what? Other people have other opinions.
Some hot girls will find Richard ugly. Some will find him average. Some will find his handsome. This applies to everyone.
I find Richard to be average with great potential.
A physique alone can add 2-3 pts to one's SMV. With a physique, tan, and hairstyle, Richard can be an easy 8, even at 5'7".
All a man needs is to be is a 7 and good "game" to get tons of women between 7-9.
Richard, as is, right now, with no additives (physique, tan, hair) can slam 7s if he develops his social acuity.
Your advice is not only not constructive and quite damaging, but it also deters others from sharing their photos and seeking assistance because of the potential outlay of the few who are misinformed. Further, advising someone to make money to attract women is not constructive as it could lead only to a gold-digger/security type of relation (see BigNeil) which is to a detriment to the man for many reasons.
What I stated is not what you allege I had stated. Read again.How old are you? Not my age(Mid 20s). I know that because the way you speak of Richard being an 8, which he is not. I have a nice social circle with plenty of women aged 20-30 all from 7-9 range, no fatties. I have showed all of these pics of Richard and no girl has said he is higher than a 6. 3-5 being the average rating. You can act like you know, or go out in person and show the pictures to all your hot women and ask them to tell you what they think of him. Truth hurts, I have nothing to lose or gain from being honest to a guy so he can adjust accordingly and get what he wants
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.