QuadDeuces
Master Don Juan
You live in Florida?
You look very pale, why don't you get more sunshine?
You look very pale, why don't you get more sunshine?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I will get spray tan.You live in Florida?
You look very pale, why don't you get more sunshine?
And a hair transplant.You have a little of the Frankenstein forehead going on due to the receding hairline, but your lambo should take care of that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
A modest amount of sun is actually healthy, much more so than spray tan.I will get spray tan.
I've known way too many people that got skin cancer.
what about big musclesMy Photofeeler scores still aren't that great.
64%, 25%, and the others were in the high teens.
The inner game. Communication, confidence, etc. That is the most important part of the equation.What is head game?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This is your opinion. Guess what? Other people have other opinions.I have no problem with support and positive messages, yet no one here has been honest to you.
You look sharp, clothes look good, but
You get an ugly lady and you put makeup on here. What is she? An ugly lady with makeup.
You’re not physically good looking, that’s the reality. I’m not a good business man, that’s the reality. Best bet for you to get hot women is get rich and then worry ‘bout women. Forget about that for now, focus on your money, forget online dating too. Unless it’s with the older women 30+ who don’t care about looks as much
I agree with your entire post.This is your opinion. Guess what? Other people have other opinions.
Some hot girls will find Richard ugly. Some will find him average. Some will find his handsome. This applies to everyone.
I find Richard to be average with great potential.
A physique alone can add 2-3 pts to one's SMV. With a physique, tan, and hairstyle, Richard can be an easy 8, even at 5'7".
All a man needs is to be is a 7 and good "game" to get tons of women between 7-9.
Richard, as is, right now, with no additives (physique, tan, hair) can slam 7s if he develops his social acuity.
Your advice is not only not constructive and damaging, but it also deters others from sharing to their photos and seeking assistance because of the potential outlay of the few who are misinformed.
Dood he just needs muscles. Muscles make me from 3/10 to 6/10I have no problem with support and positive messages, yet no one here has been honest to you.
You look sharp, clothes look good, but
You get an ugly lady and you put makeup on here. What is she? An ugly lady with makeup.
You’re not physically good looking, that’s the reality. I’m not a good business man, that’s the reality. Best bet for you to get hot women is get rich and then worry ‘bout women. Forget about that for now, focus on your money, forget online dating too. Unless it’s with the older women 30+ who don’t care about looks as much
I disagree to the extent that presentation and appearance are a big component of attraction insofar as if you are not meeting a woman’s minimum threshold of looks, you’re out regardless of your social skills.I agree with your entire post.
But he is NOT putting in any effort to develop social skills required to bang chicks that are a notch or two over him in the SMV bracket.
All of this materialistic stuff is simply not needed IMO and is a temporary bandaid that is hiding the true problem......his inability to talk to women in a way that creates interest/attraction.
A few new outfits can be a great idea for any of us. But it isnt a problem solver when it comes to women. If it was that easy, everyone would be doing it and cleaning up with 7s-10s
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
How old are you? Not my age(Mid 20s). I know that because the way you speak of Richard being an 8, which he is not. I have a nice social circle with plenty of women aged 20-30 all from 7-9 range, no fatties. I have showed all of these pics of Richard and no girl has said he is higher than a 6. 3-5 being the average rating. You can act like you know, or go out in person and show the pictures to all your hot women and ask them to tell you what they think of him. Truth hurts, I have nothing to lose or gain from being honest to a guy so he can adjust accordingly and get what he wantsThis is your opinion. Guess what? Other people have other opinions.
Some hot girls will find Richard ugly. Some will find him average. Some will find his handsome. This applies to everyone.
I find Richard to be average with great potential.
A physique alone can add 2-3 pts to one's SMV. With a physique, tan, and hairstyle, Richard can be an easy 8, even at 5'7".
All a man needs is to be is a 7 and good "game" to get tons of women between 7-9.
Richard, as is, right now, with no additives (physique, tan, hair) can slam 7s if he develops his social acuity.
Your advice is not only not constructive and quite damaging, but it also deters others from sharing their photos and seeking assistance because of the potential outlay of the few who are misinformed. Further, advising someone to make money to attract women is not constructive as it could lead only to a gold-digger/security type of relation (see BigNeil) which is to a detriment to the man for many reasons.
What I stated is not what you allege I had stated. Read again.How old are you? Not my age(Mid 20s). I know that because the way you speak of Richard being an 8, which he is not. I have a nice social circle with plenty of women aged 20-30 all from 7-9 range, no fatties. I have showed all of these pics of Richard and no girl has said he is higher than a 6. 3-5 being the average rating. You can act like you know, or go out in person and show the pictures to all your hot women and ask them to tell you what they think of him. Truth hurts, I have nothing to lose or gain from being honest to a guy so he can adjust accordingly and get what he wants
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.