QuadDeuces
Master Don Juan
You live in Florida?
You look very pale, why don't you get more sunshine?
You look very pale, why don't you get more sunshine?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I will get spray tan.You live in Florida?
You look very pale, why don't you get more sunshine?
And a hair transplant.You have a little of the Frankenstein forehead going on due to the receding hairline, but your lambo should take care of that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
A modest amount of sun is actually healthy, much more so than spray tan.I will get spray tan.
I've known way too many people that got skin cancer.
what about big musclesMy Photofeeler scores still aren't that great.
64%, 25%, and the others were in the high teens.
The inner game. Communication, confidence, etc. That is the most important part of the equation.What is head game?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
This is your opinion. Guess what? Other people have other opinions.I have no problem with support and positive messages, yet no one here has been honest to you.
You look sharp, clothes look good, but
You get an ugly lady and you put makeup on here. What is she? An ugly lady with makeup.
You’re not physically good looking, that’s the reality. I’m not a good business man, that’s the reality. Best bet for you to get hot women is get rich and then worry ‘bout women. Forget about that for now, focus on your money, forget online dating too. Unless it’s with the older women 30+ who don’t care about looks as much
I agree with your entire post.This is your opinion. Guess what? Other people have other opinions.
Some hot girls will find Richard ugly. Some will find him average. Some will find his handsome. This applies to everyone.
I find Richard to be average with great potential.
A physique alone can add 2-3 pts to one's SMV. With a physique, tan, and hairstyle, Richard can be an easy 8, even at 5'7".
All a man needs is to be is a 7 and good "game" to get tons of women between 7-9.
Richard, as is, right now, with no additives (physique, tan, hair) can slam 7s if he develops his social acuity.
Your advice is not only not constructive and damaging, but it also deters others from sharing to their photos and seeking assistance because of the potential outlay of the few who are misinformed.
Dood he just needs muscles. Muscles make me from 3/10 to 6/10I have no problem with support and positive messages, yet no one here has been honest to you.
You look sharp, clothes look good, but
You get an ugly lady and you put makeup on here. What is she? An ugly lady with makeup.
You’re not physically good looking, that’s the reality. I’m not a good business man, that’s the reality. Best bet for you to get hot women is get rich and then worry ‘bout women. Forget about that for now, focus on your money, forget online dating too. Unless it’s with the older women 30+ who don’t care about looks as much
I disagree to the extent that presentation and appearance are a big component of attraction insofar as if you are not meeting a woman’s minimum threshold of looks, you’re out regardless of your social skills.I agree with your entire post.
But he is NOT putting in any effort to develop social skills required to bang chicks that are a notch or two over him in the SMV bracket.
All of this materialistic stuff is simply not needed IMO and is a temporary bandaid that is hiding the true problem......his inability to talk to women in a way that creates interest/attraction.
A few new outfits can be a great idea for any of us. But it isnt a problem solver when it comes to women. If it was that easy, everyone would be doing it and cleaning up with 7s-10s
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How old are you? Not my age(Mid 20s). I know that because the way you speak of Richard being an 8, which he is not. I have a nice social circle with plenty of women aged 20-30 all from 7-9 range, no fatties. I have showed all of these pics of Richard and no girl has said he is higher than a 6. 3-5 being the average rating. You can act like you know, or go out in person and show the pictures to all your hot women and ask them to tell you what they think of him. Truth hurts, I have nothing to lose or gain from being honest to a guy so he can adjust accordingly and get what he wantsThis is your opinion. Guess what? Other people have other opinions.
Some hot girls will find Richard ugly. Some will find him average. Some will find his handsome. This applies to everyone.
I find Richard to be average with great potential.
A physique alone can add 2-3 pts to one's SMV. With a physique, tan, and hairstyle, Richard can be an easy 8, even at 5'7".
All a man needs is to be is a 7 and good "game" to get tons of women between 7-9.
Richard, as is, right now, with no additives (physique, tan, hair) can slam 7s if he develops his social acuity.
Your advice is not only not constructive and quite damaging, but it also deters others from sharing their photos and seeking assistance because of the potential outlay of the few who are misinformed. Further, advising someone to make money to attract women is not constructive as it could lead only to a gold-digger/security type of relation (see BigNeil) which is to a detriment to the man for many reasons.
What I stated is not what you allege I had stated. Read again.How old are you? Not my age(Mid 20s). I know that because the way you speak of Richard being an 8, which he is not. I have a nice social circle with plenty of women aged 20-30 all from 7-9 range, no fatties. I have showed all of these pics of Richard and no girl has said he is higher than a 6. 3-5 being the average rating. You can act like you know, or go out in person and show the pictures to all your hot women and ask them to tell you what they think of him. Truth hurts, I have nothing to lose or gain from being honest to a guy so he can adjust accordingly and get what he wants
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.