"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Problems with Girl "just friends"

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So i became friends with this girl about a year ago. We talk on Aim a lot and have classes with each other. We also go out sometimes, well i mean she draggs me with her friends and their boyfriends to an ice rink or movies.

She asked me to our schools winterball about 3 months early and other than that showed no signs of attraction to me. However, I have had a mild crush on one of her friends for a few years now. At winterball the girl i had a crush on was absolutely gorgeous.

After the ball i told my friend (the girl) that i thought her best friend was absolutely beautiful and that i liked her. My friend replied, "Ooo u should go for her ask her to prom" I thought all was well for awhile until she started telling me how it was sad i had to go to winterball with her. We then got into almost an argument about how she shouldn't have asked me to winterball. After analyzing our discussion on Aim i discovered that she may have really liked me. She told me "I've learned my lesson now. Boys can be really Naive and insensitive sometimes".

Now shes mad at me but yet shes still telling me to ask her friend out. Any advice? What would be a good way to resolve the conflict between her and I?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Have sex with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheLonelyOne said:
Um sorry but that just doesn't help me very much. Plus shes pretty ugly lol.
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Well ok then, wheres the problem? Tell her that you two are just friends, shell get over it even if she doesnt want to. But first get her friend.
 
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