“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Problems with Girl "just friends"

TheLonelyOne

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So i became friends with this girl about a year ago. We talk on Aim a lot and have classes with each other. We also go out sometimes, well i mean she draggs me with her friends and their boyfriends to an ice rink or movies.

She asked me to our schools winterball about 3 months early and other than that showed no signs of attraction to me. However, I have had a mild crush on one of her friends for a few years now. At winterball the girl i had a crush on was absolutely gorgeous.

After the ball i told my friend (the girl) that i thought her best friend was absolutely beautiful and that i liked her. My friend replied, "Ooo u should go for her ask her to prom" I thought all was well for awhile until she started telling me how it was sad i had to go to winterball with her. We then got into almost an argument about how she shouldn't have asked me to winterball. After analyzing our discussion on Aim i discovered that she may have really liked me. She told me "I've learned my lesson now. Boys can be really Naive and insensitive sometimes".

Now shes mad at me but yet shes still telling me to ask her friend out. Any advice? What would be a good way to resolve the conflict between her and I?
 
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oakraiderz2

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Have sex with her.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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TheLonelyOne said:
Um sorry but that just doesn't help me very much. Plus shes pretty ugly lol.
Well ok then, wheres the problem? Tell her that you two are just friends, shell get over it even if she doesnt want to. But first get her friend.
 
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