"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Problems with Girl "just friends"

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So i became friends with this girl about a year ago. We talk on Aim a lot and have classes with each other. We also go out sometimes, well i mean she draggs me with her friends and their boyfriends to an ice rink or movies.

She asked me to our schools winterball about 3 months early and other than that showed no signs of attraction to me. However, I have had a mild crush on one of her friends for a few years now. At winterball the girl i had a crush on was absolutely gorgeous.

After the ball i told my friend (the girl) that i thought her best friend was absolutely beautiful and that i liked her. My friend replied, "Ooo u should go for her ask her to prom" I thought all was well for awhile until she started telling me how it was sad i had to go to winterball with her. We then got into almost an argument about how she shouldn't have asked me to winterball. After analyzing our discussion on Aim i discovered that she may have really liked me. She told me "I've learned my lesson now. Boys can be really Naive and insensitive sometimes".

Now shes mad at me but yet shes still telling me to ask her friend out. Any advice? What would be a good way to resolve the conflict between her and I?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Have sex with her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheLonelyOne said:
Um sorry but that just doesn't help me very much. Plus shes pretty ugly lol.
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Well ok then, wheres the problem? Tell her that you two are just friends, shell get over it even if she doesnt want to. But first get her friend.
 
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