"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Problems with Girl "just friends"

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TheLonelyOne

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So i became friends with this girl about a year ago. We talk on Aim a lot and have classes with each other. We also go out sometimes, well i mean she draggs me with her friends and their boyfriends to an ice rink or movies.

She asked me to our schools winterball about 3 months early and other than that showed no signs of attraction to me. However, I have had a mild crush on one of her friends for a few years now. At winterball the girl i had a crush on was absolutely gorgeous.

After the ball i told my friend (the girl) that i thought her best friend was absolutely beautiful and that i liked her. My friend replied, "Ooo u should go for her ask her to prom" I thought all was well for awhile until she started telling me how it was sad i had to go to winterball with her. We then got into almost an argument about how she shouldn't have asked me to winterball. After analyzing our discussion on Aim i discovered that she may have really liked me. She told me "I've learned my lesson now. Boys can be really Naive and insensitive sometimes".

Now shes mad at me but yet shes still telling me to ask her friend out. Any advice? What would be a good way to resolve the conflict between her and I?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Have sex with her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheLonelyOne said:
Um sorry but that just doesn't help me very much. Plus shes pretty ugly lol.
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Well ok then, wheres the problem? Tell her that you two are just friends, shell get over it even if she doesnt want to. But first get her friend.
 
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