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Problems with Girl "just friends"

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So i became friends with this girl about a year ago. We talk on Aim a lot and have classes with each other. We also go out sometimes, well i mean she draggs me with her friends and their boyfriends to an ice rink or movies.

She asked me to our schools winterball about 3 months early and other than that showed no signs of attraction to me. However, I have had a mild crush on one of her friends for a few years now. At winterball the girl i had a crush on was absolutely gorgeous.

After the ball i told my friend (the girl) that i thought her best friend was absolutely beautiful and that i liked her. My friend replied, "Ooo u should go for her ask her to prom" I thought all was well for awhile until she started telling me how it was sad i had to go to winterball with her. We then got into almost an argument about how she shouldn't have asked me to winterball. After analyzing our discussion on Aim i discovered that she may have really liked me. She told me "I've learned my lesson now. Boys can be really Naive and insensitive sometimes".

Now shes mad at me but yet shes still telling me to ask her friend out. Any advice? What would be a good way to resolve the conflict between her and I?
 
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TheLonelyOne said:
Um sorry but that just doesn't help me very much. Plus shes pretty ugly lol.
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Well ok then, wheres the problem? Tell her that you two are just friends, shell get over it even if she doesnt want to. But first get her friend.
 
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