"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Problematic breakup
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
NFL = American professional football. My statement means your actions and interests inflate her ego to super star level.
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
It seems like she is trying to play with your emotions to put you down. And this is probably draining your energy.
The best should be solve all those stuffs/bills you both have together as soon as possible and then finish that relationship and go no contact. Just move forward.
But saying that is pretty easy when we don't have the feeling. Maybe first of all you must resolve all those feelings you have for her inside of you and then decide what to do. It take some time, and maybe talking to a good therapist can help you with that.
I know how hard those things are. Hope you be good and solve that in the best way man!
TonyTenner
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What a couple of people here have hinted at, but isn't stressed enough, is how much you have to look forward to. Once your read the Rational Male and delve into these forums, you'll find situations like you're in much easier to deal with (most likely you'll never find yourself in this situation again). You'll probably feel grief for your old ideas of idealised love. But after a few months of reading RP material, you'll naturally start to detach from those ideas. And the situation you find yourself in can be dealt with in a matter-of-fact manner.
At 28, you're in a much better position than her. If you read these forums, work on yourself, don't go down the hating-women road some do, the world will be your oyster. As someone above said, it won't be easy, but most things worth having don't come easy.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Delete. Block. Next.
Go focus your energy on new women. When the milk goes bad no matter how much you hope or want it to taste good again, it will never be good again.
Baibars
Master Don Juan
She does exactly the same things my ex does. Fck that ***** and work on yourself. She was never yours it was just your turn. The longer you stick to her you longer stay a failure and the longer your suffering. You're her last choice right now. Not like she's something special but keep that in mind. Consume more Red pill stuff and you'll be over that and you'll be a different person. But only if you start now. Cut contact
Personally I think any girls that sends naked pictures should be shared and posted on the internet as a reminder to how dumb she is. Let her future kids or future bf see that $hit.
bat soup
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That depends. Can you control your emotions?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Baibars
Master Don Juan
I don't think that he should have sex with her in the Position he is right now. He is emotionally attached. She spins him as a plate and he seems to have no options. They just broke up.
He has to work on himself so he never ever gets in this position again. Work on his body, mind just everything.
I agree.
However the only exception would be if he has rough angry sex with her, chokes her, slaps her, spits on her. A2M, anal, finish in her mouth after sticking it in the pooper. Then look her straight in her eyes and tell her "B1tch, I never wanna see you again." LOL
yes, looks like im her plate and i dont have any.
Baibars
Master Don Juan
Just do what you have to do. It's natural that she had already someone lined up ( probably not only one ) because it's far easier for women. Even the ugliest girl can do that as long as she has a vagina there will be someone waiting for her. Men have to do the work especially after a break up you're not in your best condition you know that.
Don't look for excuses so you can talk to her. Find ways how you can sort that sh*t out asap.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Baibars
Master Don Juan
Same thing happened to me just ignore her and if she continues sending pointless stuff Block her.
That's normal. She sees you as beta and uses you for attention. She sends you this pic and bangs some other guys. Don't play her game.
Of course you did mistakes in your relationship like she did. She tells you your mistakes because she wants to confirm her decision about leaving you. If you fall for that and apologize or beg her back etc. that will also confirm her decision.
She will never get back with you and even if she gives you a chance.. she won't do it because of you but because of her being dumped by some guy and her need for security. And even then she will use you and upgrade asap. Dont allow her to send you anything pointless. No pics no Text. Dont even make that possible shes out.