"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Problem with pulling the trigger!

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I have a huge problem with pulling the trigger. Like if I meet a girl I would probably do everything but show my affection towards her. Like there is a girl that to me she is a perfect 10. She is new to the school and I started talking to her (just like saying hi and bye). But one day I saw her alone and it was just me and her. So I call her over we talk a little bit and I get her AIM. But I want to show that I really like her and want to have a relationship. How would I go about doing this?




P.S- Im a Junior she is a Senior.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nino-Tk said:
Why do you want rush into a relationship?you and her arent even dating,the way to go about this is to CREATE ATTRACTION,i hope you have been doing that because if not you will be thrown into the FRIEND ZONE.
I don't want to rush anything but its just that I see her for like a brief second everyday all I do is just say hi. How would I go about creating attraction in such little time. By the way she is graduating this year so I don't want time to just be wasted. Also Im not the only 1 after her, there is a hell of a lot that like her as well.
 

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Jmac said:
I don't want to rush anything but its just that I see her for like a brief second everyday all I do is just say hi. How would I go about creating attraction in such little time. By the way she is graduating this year so I don't want time to just be wasted. Also Im not the only 1 after her, there is a hell of a lot that like her as well.
You, my friend, need to read the Bible.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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...You got her AIM...?


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I just had a flashback to my 7th grade dating scene. :crackup: Jesus man, get her number! You're not in junior high anymore!
 

Craig Reeves

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You need to setup time with her outside of school to hang out. There is no way you can properly progress with her only within the school's walls.
 

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yea I got her aim and talked to her. I said wats up and she said who is this? I tryed acting a bit jerkish and said you cant say hi. Now she ignores me on aim not knowing its me. BTW whats the difference if I get a AIM or #? I rather text to get more time to think and all.
 

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Jmac said:
I said wats up and she said who is this? I tryed acting a bit jerkish and said you cant say hi. Now she ignores me on aim not knowing its me.


:crackup: :crackup:


Dude, you really need to read the bible.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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