"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Problem with pulling the trigger!

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I have a huge problem with pulling the trigger. Like if I meet a girl I would probably do everything but show my affection towards her. Like there is a girl that to me she is a perfect 10. She is new to the school and I started talking to her (just like saying hi and bye). But one day I saw her alone and it was just me and her. So I call her over we talk a little bit and I get her AIM. But I want to show that I really like her and want to have a relationship. How would I go about doing this?




P.S- Im a Junior she is a Senior.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nino-Tk said:
Why do you want rush into a relationship?you and her arent even dating,the way to go about this is to CREATE ATTRACTION,i hope you have been doing that because if not you will be thrown into the FRIEND ZONE.
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I don't want to rush anything but its just that I see her for like a brief second everyday all I do is just say hi. How would I go about creating attraction in such little time. By the way she is graduating this year so I don't want time to just be wasted. Also Im not the only 1 after her, there is a hell of a lot that like her as well.
 
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Jmac said:
I don't want to rush anything but its just that I see her for like a brief second everyday all I do is just say hi. How would I go about creating attraction in such little time. By the way she is graduating this year so I don't want time to just be wasted. Also Im not the only 1 after her, there is a hell of a lot that like her as well.
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You, my friend, need to read the Bible.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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...You got her AIM...?


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I just had a flashback to my 7th grade dating scene. :crackup: Jesus man, get her number! You're not in junior high anymore!
 
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You need to setup time with her outside of school to hang out. There is no way you can properly progress with her only within the school's walls.
 
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yea I got her aim and talked to her. I said wats up and she said who is this? I tryed acting a bit jerkish and said you cant say hi. Now she ignores me on aim not knowing its me. BTW whats the difference if I get a AIM or #? I rather text to get more time to think and all.
 
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Jmac said:
I said wats up and she said who is this? I tryed acting a bit jerkish and said you cant say hi. Now she ignores me on aim not knowing its me.
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:crackup: :crackup:


Dude, you really need to read the bible.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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