"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Problem with pulling the trigger!

Jmac

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I have a huge problem with pulling the trigger. Like if I meet a girl I would probably do everything but show my affection towards her. Like there is a girl that to me she is a perfect 10. She is new to the school and I started talking to her (just like saying hi and bye). But one day I saw her alone and it was just me and her. So I call her over we talk a little bit and I get her AIM. But I want to show that I really like her and want to have a relationship. How would I go about doing this?




P.S- Im a Junior she is a Senior.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nino-Tk said:
Why do you want rush into a relationship?you and her arent even dating,the way to go about this is to CREATE ATTRACTION,i hope you have been doing that because if not you will be thrown into the FRIEND ZONE.
I don't want to rush anything but its just that I see her for like a brief second everyday all I do is just say hi. How would I go about creating attraction in such little time. By the way she is graduating this year so I don't want time to just be wasted. Also Im not the only 1 after her, there is a hell of a lot that like her as well.
 

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Jmac said:
I don't want to rush anything but its just that I see her for like a brief second everyday all I do is just say hi. How would I go about creating attraction in such little time. By the way she is graduating this year so I don't want time to just be wasted. Also Im not the only 1 after her, there is a hell of a lot that like her as well.
You, my friend, need to read the Bible.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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...You got her AIM...?


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I just had a flashback to my 7th grade dating scene. :crackup: Jesus man, get her number! You're not in junior high anymore!
 

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You need to setup time with her outside of school to hang out. There is no way you can properly progress with her only within the school's walls.
 

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yea I got her aim and talked to her. I said wats up and she said who is this? I tryed acting a bit jerkish and said you cant say hi. Now she ignores me on aim not knowing its me. BTW whats the difference if I get a AIM or #? I rather text to get more time to think and all.
 

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Jmac said:
I said wats up and she said who is this? I tryed acting a bit jerkish and said you cant say hi. Now she ignores me on aim not knowing its me.


:crackup: :crackup:


Dude, you really need to read the bible.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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