"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Problem with pulling the trigger!

Jmac

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I have a huge problem with pulling the trigger. Like if I meet a girl I would probably do everything but show my affection towards her. Like there is a girl that to me she is a perfect 10. She is new to the school and I started talking to her (just like saying hi and bye). But one day I saw her alone and it was just me and her. So I call her over we talk a little bit and I get her AIM. But I want to show that I really like her and want to have a relationship. How would I go about doing this?




P.S- Im a Junior she is a Senior.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nino-Tk said:
Why do you want rush into a relationship?you and her arent even dating,the way to go about this is to CREATE ATTRACTION,i hope you have been doing that because if not you will be thrown into the FRIEND ZONE.
I don't want to rush anything but its just that I see her for like a brief second everyday all I do is just say hi. How would I go about creating attraction in such little time. By the way she is graduating this year so I don't want time to just be wasted. Also Im not the only 1 after her, there is a hell of a lot that like her as well.
 

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Jmac said:
I don't want to rush anything but its just that I see her for like a brief second everyday all I do is just say hi. How would I go about creating attraction in such little time. By the way she is graduating this year so I don't want time to just be wasted. Also Im not the only 1 after her, there is a hell of a lot that like her as well.
You, my friend, need to read the Bible.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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...You got her AIM...?


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I just had a flashback to my 7th grade dating scene. :crackup: Jesus man, get her number! You're not in junior high anymore!
 

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You need to setup time with her outside of school to hang out. There is no way you can properly progress with her only within the school's walls.
 

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yea I got her aim and talked to her. I said wats up and she said who is this? I tryed acting a bit jerkish and said you cant say hi. Now she ignores me on aim not knowing its me. BTW whats the difference if I get a AIM or #? I rather text to get more time to think and all.
 

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Jmac said:
I said wats up and she said who is this? I tryed acting a bit jerkish and said you cant say hi. Now she ignores me on aim not knowing its me.


:crackup: :crackup:


Dude, you really need to read the bible.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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