"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Probably makes no sense at all, but heres a mind dump thread *PureFilth*

Purefilth

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Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Man, I feel like I said something like this in several comments a month or two back or so.... :p

The world's grey, many people forget and try to lump everything into a 'do' or 'don't', 'yes' or 'no', 'this' or 'that'.
 

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Purefilth said:
Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
Inspiring! I think I'm FINALLY going to get off my azz and start a paper route!

"Must spread rep before giving to PureFilth again."
 

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This is the kind of topic I'd be inspired to respond to if you give me feedback on my website
 

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Purefilth said:
Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
Solid post. It's how anyone should take all the info posted here on SS. As reference not dogma
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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