"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Probably makes no sense at all, but heres a mind dump thread *PureFilth*

Purefilth

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Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Man, I feel like I said something like this in several comments a month or two back or so.... :p

The world's grey, many people forget and try to lump everything into a 'do' or 'don't', 'yes' or 'no', 'this' or 'that'.
 

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Purefilth said:
Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
Inspiring! I think I'm FINALLY going to get off my azz and start a paper route!

"Must spread rep before giving to PureFilth again."
 

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This is the kind of topic I'd be inspired to respond to if you give me feedback on my website
 

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Purefilth said:
Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
Solid post. It's how anyone should take all the info posted here on SS. As reference not dogma
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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