"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Probably makes no sense at all, but heres a mind dump thread *PureFilth*

Purefilth

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Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Plutoman

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Man, I feel like I said something like this in several comments a month or two back or so.... :p

The world's grey, many people forget and try to lump everything into a 'do' or 'don't', 'yes' or 'no', 'this' or 'that'.
 

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Purefilth said:
Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
Inspiring! I think I'm FINALLY going to get off my azz and start a paper route!

"Must spread rep before giving to PureFilth again."
 

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This is the kind of topic I'd be inspired to respond to if you give me feedback on my website
 

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Purefilth said:
Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
Solid post. It's how anyone should take all the info posted here on SS. As reference not dogma
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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