"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Probably makes no sense at all, but heres a mind dump thread *PureFilth*

Purefilth

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Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Man, I feel like I said something like this in several comments a month or two back or so.... :p

The world's grey, many people forget and try to lump everything into a 'do' or 'don't', 'yes' or 'no', 'this' or 'that'.
 

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Purefilth said:
Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
Inspiring! I think I'm FINALLY going to get off my azz and start a paper route!

"Must spread rep before giving to PureFilth again."
 

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This is the kind of topic I'd be inspired to respond to if you give me feedback on my website
 

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Purefilth said:
Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
Solid post. It's how anyone should take all the info posted here on SS. As reference not dogma
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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