"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Probably makes no sense at all, but heres a mind dump thread *PureFilth*

Purefilth

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Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Man, I feel like I said something like this in several comments a month or two back or so.... :p

The world's grey, many people forget and try to lump everything into a 'do' or 'don't', 'yes' or 'no', 'this' or 'that'.
 

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Purefilth said:
Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
Inspiring! I think I'm FINALLY going to get off my azz and start a paper route!

"Must spread rep before giving to PureFilth again."
 

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This is the kind of topic I'd be inspired to respond to if you give me feedback on my website
 

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Purefilth said:
Everyone seems to think that "game" is all black and white.

Truth be told - we live in a grey world - you need to learn what you are capable of achieving before you draw out any lines sayimg "do not cross".

Its all down to experience though lads - get out there and sarge. Break hearts, tear off panties with your teeth, BITE that ass.

Learn some and then create your OWN "DJ". Its all well and good reading f/r, l/r and commenting "you SHOULD have" "I WOULD have" "NEXT".

But these are imaginary lines. most will never see such a situation and therefore never know where THEIR line truly is without EXPERIENCE we are nothing.

Forget black and white lines, find your own way through the grey.
Solid post. It's how anyone should take all the info posted here on SS. As reference not dogma
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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