JackBauer24
Don Juan
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Any guys went out with or had sex with a chubby girl with a pretty face (not obese or overweight, just a little extra weight)?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
skirtChaser said:if shes fat with a cute face put a blanket over her body and insist on oral sex, afterwards ask her if shes into fisting
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The average size of the American woman is 14. This is why I uncheck the "Average" box when doing searches on myspace and dating sites and just stick to the Slim/Slender chicks.bambam said:if you live in america you have had sex with a chubby. don't kid yourselves. the average american female is close to obese if not obese. that is a statistical fact. don't tell me that your town is special.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Jaxon said:I'll hit a chubby girl IF she also has the following:
1. A cute face
2. Nice tig ol' bitties
3. Nice skin--no stretch marks.
Notice I said I'd hit it if the following applies. Being seen in public is another story.
Most American females are fat. Most of these females either are taken or have members of this board after them. Just go read all the research from the AMA on what is killing Americans. Obesity is a tragic problem in America. Every age is having to deal with this problem. Younger Americans are blowing up. It has nothing to do with fast food (or most of Western Europe would be big and fat), instead it has to do with portion size and lack of activity. Nobody walks anymore in America. Park away from the door, folks! Take a walk around the block after supper. Move!joey2times said:You guys are so full of shyt. I personally am attracted to a size 14 with a pretty face. The problem is, these bytches must be getting plenty of guys because they think they're the ****. They can be 70 pounds overweight but won't look at a guy who's heavy.
I'm in good shape, so even though I prefer some meat on them bones, I date thinner women because I don't think those fat hypocrites deserve this.
By the way, I see a lot of yall walking out in public with fatties. I guess we have the only guys in America who only date thin chicks on this board.
Fat chicks are not hurting for dates, so either yall are lying, or there are an awful lot of chubby chasers out there.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.