JackBauer24
Don Juan
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Any guys went out with or had sex with a chubby girl with a pretty face (not obese or overweight, just a little extra weight)?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
skirtChaser said:if shes fat with a cute face put a blanket over her body and insist on oral sex, afterwards ask her if shes into fisting
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The average size of the American woman is 14. This is why I uncheck the "Average" box when doing searches on myspace and dating sites and just stick to the Slim/Slender chicks.bambam said:if you live in america you have had sex with a chubby. don't kid yourselves. the average american female is close to obese if not obese. that is a statistical fact. don't tell me that your town is special.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Jaxon said:I'll hit a chubby girl IF she also has the following:
1. A cute face
2. Nice tig ol' bitties
3. Nice skin--no stretch marks.
Notice I said I'd hit it if the following applies. Being seen in public is another story.
Most American females are fat. Most of these females either are taken or have members of this board after them. Just go read all the research from the AMA on what is killing Americans. Obesity is a tragic problem in America. Every age is having to deal with this problem. Younger Americans are blowing up. It has nothing to do with fast food (or most of Western Europe would be big and fat), instead it has to do with portion size and lack of activity. Nobody walks anymore in America. Park away from the door, folks! Take a walk around the block after supper. Move!joey2times said:You guys are so full of shyt. I personally am attracted to a size 14 with a pretty face. The problem is, these bytches must be getting plenty of guys because they think they're the ****. They can be 70 pounds overweight but won't look at a guy who's heavy.
I'm in good shape, so even though I prefer some meat on them bones, I date thinner women because I don't think those fat hypocrites deserve this.
By the way, I see a lot of yall walking out in public with fatties. I guess we have the only guys in America who only date thin chicks on this board.
Fat chicks are not hurting for dates, so either yall are lying, or there are an awful lot of chubby chasers out there.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.