"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pretty, chubby girls

JackBauer24

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Any guys went out with or had sex with a chubby girl with a pretty face (not obese or overweight, just a little extra weight)?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kdnash82

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LMAO!!! Wasn't there a thread about this before where guys talked about sexual experiences that should be forgotten?

To answer, yes, I've had my fair share of with the lights off encounters. Immediately when I was getting ready to blow my load (not after, not while in the act, but immediately when I was getting ready to blow) that's when it dawned on me that i was banging a fat chick and immediately wish I hadn't.

In my head at that moment:
"Oh no... what am I doing... Oh gawd... I'm bout to come... Noo.. Noo.... NoooOOOoOHHAHHAHHHHh!!"

I blow and immediately regret it.
 

Maxtro

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Heh, that depends on what you consider a little extra weight.

I "dated" a girl that was, well heavier than me for two weeks, she was kind of cute though.

But I will never again date a girl that isn't in my weight class.
 

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There are TONS of slim, fit, hot chicks.

At least here, where I am.

Look around, There's a lot of chubbies, but that's not all.

I'm in America.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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rarely you will find a hot girl with a little extra baggage, but they do exist.. I've seen like 1 or 2 in my whole life though lol
 

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if shes fat with a cute face put a blanket over her body and insist on oral sex, afterwards ask her if shes into fisting
 

DonJuan11

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skirtChaser said:
if shes fat with a cute face put a blanket over her body and insist on oral sex, afterwards ask her if shes into fisting
LOL. That may be a little extreme.


I've been offered sex from chubby girls but have refused to sleep with them each time. One of them had a ok face but still, I watch too much adult entertainment to lose my V-card to a FAT chick.

I'll take not so pretty, young and tight OVER pretty, young, and FAT anyday.

Why doesn't anyone on here ask for advice with the fatties?
Because its easy not to get nervous with them, its easy to get sex with them. The hot ones, it's a much much different story.

Why do most porn videos have tight young girls on them?
Because that's what turn us on. Other than those Big Boned Loving videos, who wants to see Rosie O. doing it and doing it and doing it well?


Bottomline:
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We are all here for the thin younger girls. Hot is icing on the cake.

I am out.​
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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My girlfriend of now isn't skinny or overweight. She just has thick thighs, big a$$, and nice rack. Some meat on her but, they're features I like. You may consider her a lil chubby but, she does get hit on quite a bit. I'd rate her on looks about 7-8. Hey, if you think she's hot and like her it don't matter. Pvssy is pvssy to me. Skinny girls don't got no meat on their bones and break like a twig.....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been with a number of different kinds of ladies, and personally I'd take a pretty face with a little extra weight over a supermodel body with a horrible butterface. A chubby chick can always lose weight, but an ugly chick can't change much without plastic surgery.

But then again, it comes down to personal opinion. What's that saying again..."Fat chicks are like mopeds; fun to ride but you don't want your friends to see you on one."
 

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Yeah, there's this one girl in particular that has an awesome face (IMO), but is a little bit on the chunky side. I'd still do her, it's not like she's Rosie O'donnell.
 

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bambam said:
if you live in america you have had sex with a chubby. don't kid yourselves. the average american female is close to obese if not obese. that is a statistical fact. don't tell me that your town is special.
The average size of the American woman is 14. This is why I uncheck the "Average" box when doing searches on myspace and dating sites and just stick to the Slim/Slender chicks.

Even this is considered athletic in America:
http://apse.dallasnews.com/contest/2004/writing/dailyart/40-100_features_hr5.jpg
 

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I'll hit a chubby girl IF she also has the following:

1. A cute face
2. Nice tig ol' bitties
3. Nice skin--no stretch marks.

Notice I said I'd hit it if the following applies. Being seen in public is another story.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jaxon said:
I'll hit a chubby girl IF she also has the following:

1. A cute face
2. Nice tig ol' bitties
3. Nice skin--no stretch marks.

Notice I said I'd hit it if the following applies. Being seen in public is another story.

LOL. I am totally with you about not being seen in public with them. I would fvck a chub if...............
1. I was at a bar and she totally came on to me very strongly.
2. must have a cute face.
3. big tits.
4. It would be a ONS and thats it. would never take her on a date.
5. It would have to be a girl that I have a very slim chane of running into again.
6. I also have to be able to lift her. Nothing over 175 pounds.
7. Would have to be horny and drunk.
I have fvcked a 2 chubs in my younger years and they met these 7 things.
 

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I wanna **** my mom's best friend. She's kinda chubby but has huge tits and a pretty face. Plus she's my mom's best friend so that would be legendary as well as assholish...being both appeal to me greatly.
 

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personally, I like a chick that has a little bit extra weight on them.

My current girlfriend is 5'7" at 150 lbs. She has the personality that I desire and works out four times a week.

comic_relief
 

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joey2times said:
You guys are so full of shyt. I personally am attracted to a size 14 with a pretty face. The problem is, these bytches must be getting plenty of guys because they think they're the ****. They can be 70 pounds overweight but won't look at a guy who's heavy.

I'm in good shape, so even though I prefer some meat on them bones, I date thinner women because I don't think those fat hypocrites deserve this.

By the way, I see a lot of yall walking out in public with fatties. I guess we have the only guys in America who only date thin chicks on this board.

Fat chicks are not hurting for dates, so either yall are lying, or there are an awful lot of chubby chasers out there.
Most American females are fat. Most of these females either are taken or have members of this board after them. Just go read all the research from the AMA on what is killing Americans. Obesity is a tragic problem in America. Every age is having to deal with this problem. Younger Americans are blowing up. It has nothing to do with fast food (or most of Western Europe would be big and fat), instead it has to do with portion size and lack of activity. Nobody walks anymore in America. Park away from the door, folks! Take a walk around the block after supper. Move!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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