MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Pregnant single mommy of 6 already says no kissing until 5th date
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
taiyuu_otoko
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A lot of women use OLD to flex their imaginary value so they don't have to feel so depressed about their depressingly horrible situation.
It's also a convenient way to frame the problem as being "no good men" vs. "I suck and nobody wants me."
It's also a convenient way to frame the problem as being "no good men" vs. "I suck and nobody wants me."
is this chic delusional? 6 kids and a 7th on the way, but no kissing until the fifth date. By the sixth date, she accepts sperm donations by the looks of it. Which guy in his right mind would want to date a chic with this much baggage, litterly and figuratively? She needs a mechanic to keep her bus running so she can haul around all her bad decisions.
Insert Arnold sound bite, “run to the chopper…”
Insert Arnold sound bite, “run to the chopper…”
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
taiyuu_otoko
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I was just about to say the same thing...
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English only please.
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Obvious she isn't looking for a guy she is interested in dating/banging. Rather one she will be able to string along to get him to fix her car.
When she said "Please know how to work on cars...what else would you be good for anyway?" she actually was telling the truth. She has no intention of doing anything but using this guy for fixing her car.
She knows anyone who responds to that has to be desperate and will likely accept it.
When she said "Please know how to work on cars...what else would you be good for anyway?" she actually was telling the truth. She has no intention of doing anything but using this guy for fixing her car.
She knows anyone who responds to that has to be desperate and will likely accept it.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MatureDJ
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What kind of 'ho makes a man wait 5 dates - and evidently a mechanical repair of a car - for a peck on the cheek?
FlexpertHamilton
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The same rules that still censor curse words for no apparent reason except the fact that the rules exist.
Doctor Europeo
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Its almost one date per kid
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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There is almost always a thirsty enough Beta around.
Scaramouche
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Hi MDJ,
Silly I hadn't thought of it before,but the Duke has it right,looking at this Young Girl,she hasn't had six Kids...The sheer volume of work that would entail,would leave its marks!....Sometimes a little cynicism is a good thing.
Scaramouche
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Hi MDJ,
The more I look at this,the more I think the creative Journalist who engineered it,is winding us up like a clockwork toy,sure sucked me in....Looking at the Photo,the complexion,soft Patrician face and chin reminds me of an English Girl...The author really does lay it on just a bit too thick,but antagonises us enough to keep reading and get indignant LOL.....Why don't some of you computer Whizz Kids like @Hacker find her on the net?......Its London to a brick this comes from one of the Gutter English tabloids!