MatureDJ
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Pregnant single mommy of 6 already says no kissing until 5th date
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
A lot of women use OLD to flex their imaginary value so they don't have to feel so depressed about their depressingly horrible situation.
It's also a convenient way to frame the problem as being "no good men" vs. "I suck and nobody wants me."
It's also a convenient way to frame the problem as being "no good men" vs. "I suck and nobody wants me."
is this chic delusional? 6 kids and a 7th on the way, but no kissing until the fifth date. By the sixth date, she accepts sperm donations by the looks of it. Which guy in his right mind would want to date a chic with this much baggage, litterly and figuratively? She needs a mechanic to keep her bus running so she can haul around all her bad decisions.
Insert Arnold sound bite, “run to the chopper…”
Insert Arnold sound bite, “run to the chopper…”
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I was just about to say the same thing...
BackInTheGame78
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English only please.
BackInTheGame78
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Obvious she isn't looking for a guy she is interested in dating/banging. Rather one she will be able to string along to get him to fix her car.
When she said "Please know how to work on cars...what else would you be good for anyway?" she actually was telling the truth. She has no intention of doing anything but using this guy for fixing her car.
She knows anyone who responds to that has to be desperate and will likely accept it.
When she said "Please know how to work on cars...what else would you be good for anyway?" she actually was telling the truth. She has no intention of doing anything but using this guy for fixing her car.
She knows anyone who responds to that has to be desperate and will likely accept it.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MatureDJ
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What kind of 'ho makes a man wait 5 dates - and evidently a mechanical repair of a car - for a peck on the cheek?
FlexpertHamilton
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The same rules that still censor curse words for no apparent reason except the fact that the rules exist.
Doctor Europeo
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Its almost one date per kid
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MatureDJ
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There is almost always a thirsty enough Beta around.
Scaramouche
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Hi MDJ,
Silly I hadn't thought of it before,but the Duke has it right,looking at this Young Girl,she hasn't had six Kids...The sheer volume of work that would entail,would leave its marks!....Sometimes a little cynicism is a good thing.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hi MDJ,
The more I look at this,the more I think the creative Journalist who engineered it,is winding us up like a clockwork toy,sure sucked me in....Looking at the Photo,the complexion,soft Patrician face and chin reminds me of an English Girl...The author really does lay it on just a bit too thick,but antagonises us enough to keep reading and get indignant LOL.....Why don't some of you computer Whizz Kids like @Hacker find her on the net?......Its London to a brick this comes from one of the Gutter English tabloids!