MatureDJ
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Pregnant single mommy of 6 already says no kissing until 5th date
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
A lot of women use OLD to flex their imaginary value so they don't have to feel so depressed about their depressingly horrible situation.
It's also a convenient way to frame the problem as being "no good men" vs. "I suck and nobody wants me."
It's also a convenient way to frame the problem as being "no good men" vs. "I suck and nobody wants me."
is this chic delusional? 6 kids and a 7th on the way, but no kissing until the fifth date. By the sixth date, she accepts sperm donations by the looks of it. Which guy in his right mind would want to date a chic with this much baggage, litterly and figuratively? She needs a mechanic to keep her bus running so she can haul around all her bad decisions.
Insert Arnold sound bite, “run to the chopper…”
Insert Arnold sound bite, “run to the chopper…”
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I was just about to say the same thing...
BackInTheGame78
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English only please.
BackInTheGame78
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Obvious she isn't looking for a guy she is interested in dating/banging. Rather one she will be able to string along to get him to fix her car.
When she said "Please know how to work on cars...what else would you be good for anyway?" she actually was telling the truth. She has no intention of doing anything but using this guy for fixing her car.
She knows anyone who responds to that has to be desperate and will likely accept it.
When she said "Please know how to work on cars...what else would you be good for anyway?" she actually was telling the truth. She has no intention of doing anything but using this guy for fixing her car.
She knows anyone who responds to that has to be desperate and will likely accept it.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MatureDJ
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What kind of 'ho makes a man wait 5 dates - and evidently a mechanical repair of a car - for a peck on the cheek?
FlexpertHamilton
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The same rules that still censor curse words for no apparent reason except the fact that the rules exist.
Doctor Europeo
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Its almost one date per kid
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MatureDJ
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There is almost always a thirsty enough Beta around.
Scaramouche
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Hi MDJ,
Silly I hadn't thought of it before,but the Duke has it right,looking at this Young Girl,she hasn't had six Kids...The sheer volume of work that would entail,would leave its marks!....Sometimes a little cynicism is a good thing.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hi MDJ,
The more I look at this,the more I think the creative Journalist who engineered it,is winding us up like a clockwork toy,sure sucked me in....Looking at the Photo,the complexion,soft Patrician face and chin reminds me of an English Girl...The author really does lay it on just a bit too thick,but antagonises us enough to keep reading and get indignant LOL.....Why don't some of you computer Whizz Kids like @Hacker find her on the net?......Its London to a brick this comes from one of the Gutter English tabloids!