"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Pre-nups

logic1

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This thought came from reading a previous thread. About choosing the right wife if not it could be disatorous on you financially. This is a 100% correct statement. People get robbed by the divorce laws everyday.

What is the concensous on Pre-nup aggrements?

Does this type of talk with your SO drive a wedge between you? Does it take something away from the relationship? Is it the DJ way?

Maybe it depends on the women?

Just thinking out loud.

I feel if she is a good women you dont need it but you never know. Would it chase her away?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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logic1 said:
This thought came from reading a previous thread. About choosing the right wife if not it could be disatorous on you financially. This is a 100% correct statement. People get robbed by the divorce laws everyday.

What is the concensous on Pre-nup aggrements?

Does this type of talk with your SO drive a wedge between you? Does it take something away from the relationship? Is it the DJ way?

Maybe it depends on the women?

Just thinking out loud.

I feel if she is a good women you dont need it but you never know. Would it chase her away?


If you are a successful MAN, I would advise to always go with a PRENUP. This essentionally holds your power in the relationship.
 

logic1

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Thanks Francisco

I need to do more searches before posting
 

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I'm pro prenup! But...you guys already knew that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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