"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pre-nups

logic1

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This thought came from reading a previous thread. About choosing the right wife if not it could be disatorous on you financially. This is a 100% correct statement. People get robbed by the divorce laws everyday.

What is the concensous on Pre-nup aggrements?

Does this type of talk with your SO drive a wedge between you? Does it take something away from the relationship? Is it the DJ way?

Maybe it depends on the women?

Just thinking out loud.

I feel if she is a good women you dont need it but you never know. Would it chase her away?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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logic1 said:
This thought came from reading a previous thread. About choosing the right wife if not it could be disatorous on you financially. This is a 100% correct statement. People get robbed by the divorce laws everyday.

What is the concensous on Pre-nup aggrements?

Does this type of talk with your SO drive a wedge between you? Does it take something away from the relationship? Is it the DJ way?

Maybe it depends on the women?

Just thinking out loud.

I feel if she is a good women you dont need it but you never know. Would it chase her away?


If you are a successful MAN, I would advise to always go with a PRENUP. This essentionally holds your power in the relationship.
 

logic1

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Thanks Francisco

I need to do more searches before posting
 

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I'm pro prenup! But...you guys already knew that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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