Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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logic1

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This thought came from reading a previous thread. About choosing the right wife if not it could be disatorous on you financially. This is a 100% correct statement. People get robbed by the divorce laws everyday.

What is the concensous on Pre-nup aggrements?

Does this type of talk with your SO drive a wedge between you? Does it take something away from the relationship? Is it the DJ way?

Maybe it depends on the women?

Just thinking out loud.

I feel if she is a good women you dont need it but you never know. Would it chase her away?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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logic1 said:
This thought came from reading a previous thread. About choosing the right wife if not it could be disatorous on you financially. This is a 100% correct statement. People get robbed by the divorce laws everyday.

What is the concensous on Pre-nup aggrements?

Does this type of talk with your SO drive a wedge between you? Does it take something away from the relationship? Is it the DJ way?

Maybe it depends on the women?

Just thinking out loud.

I feel if she is a good women you dont need it but you never know. Would it chase her away?


If you are a successful MAN, I would advise to always go with a PRENUP. This essentionally holds your power in the relationship.
 

logic1

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Thanks Francisco

I need to do more searches before posting
 

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I'm pro prenup! But...you guys already knew that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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