"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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logic1

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This thought came from reading a previous thread. About choosing the right wife if not it could be disatorous on you financially. This is a 100% correct statement. People get robbed by the divorce laws everyday.

What is the concensous on Pre-nup aggrements?

Does this type of talk with your SO drive a wedge between you? Does it take something away from the relationship? Is it the DJ way?

Maybe it depends on the women?

Just thinking out loud.

I feel if she is a good women you dont need it but you never know. Would it chase her away?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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logic1 said:
This thought came from reading a previous thread. About choosing the right wife if not it could be disatorous on you financially. This is a 100% correct statement. People get robbed by the divorce laws everyday.

What is the concensous on Pre-nup aggrements?

Does this type of talk with your SO drive a wedge between you? Does it take something away from the relationship? Is it the DJ way?

Maybe it depends on the women?

Just thinking out loud.

I feel if she is a good women you dont need it but you never know. Would it chase her away?


If you are a successful MAN, I would advise to always go with a PRENUP. This essentionally holds your power in the relationship.
 

logic1

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Thanks Francisco

I need to do more searches before posting
 

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I'm pro prenup! But...you guys already knew that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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