potential new plate?

[marmel75]

well this board was made to help guys who need help so I come on here and ask lol. yeah royally fvcked up by not putting my number in her phone I think she pulled her phone out infrknt of .e on purpose now that I think of it.

I can tell by her personality she's not slutty and I've heard.

Thats not the type of help we are here to provide. This is common sense 101 and shouldn't require any help...

There is no way to help if you refuse to take the necessary actions to start the process.

 

[derby1]

your posts are constand "hold my hand posts" @Ryan Adams , your not practicing FCK ALL or you would have gone for what you wanted with this chick and either failed or got a result..

you are not "outcome independent", you are scared of the outcome

 

[Ryan Adams]

your exactly right. I'm scared to get the answer so I put everything off.

 

[Ryan Adams]

we chatted a little bit yesterday. I then asked her out saturday to which I got 0 response. i take that as a nice way of saying no?
in person she shows all signs of being interested by body language etc.

 

[Stallionstud]

we chatted a little bit yesterday. I then asked her out saturday to which I got 0 response. i take that as a nice way of saying no?
in person she shows all signs of being interested by body language etc.

Wait what? How did you chat? You Facebooked her didn’t you?

Weaaaaak move. Learn from it.

 

[Ryan Adams]

no we were chatting over Snapchat and I mentioned it. she asked where the outing was i said where it was and I just got no response.

in retrospect I should of called. fvck it I don't give a fvck I'll call her Fri and ask again

 

[Stallionstud]

Oh you had her Snapchat? Thats good. I thought you had nothing. Now you got her number?

Where did you suggest going?

 

[Ryan Adams]

I have her snap, number,Facebook.
there was a party bus with a bunch of us going sat to a nicer place in the city. and I don't wanna be a 3rd wheel so I mentioned to her if she wants to go and that it'll be fun. she asked oh cool where?! I told her where and she just never responded. to be honest she always abruptly leaves convos. she apparently does it with everyone from what her friend was saying about her.

 

[Ryan Adams]

update: so I called and viola she was ecstatic and said yes. lol so weird she didn't respond to my text asking but when I called she was happy as can be.

 

[Stallionstud]

cool good luck. Push the envelope don’t get friend zoned

 

[Ryan Adams]

fvckn weird she wouldn't respond through text but answered the call and seemed happy

 

[Stallionstud]

If she actually shows up, than yes it is weird to me as well. She may still flake.
Maybe you conveyed confidence. When/if she shows keep that up. Don’t faulter

 

[Ryan Adams]

she always abruptly leaves conversations like supposedly she does that all the time over text

 

[marmel75]

she always abruptly leaves conversations like supposedly she does that all the time over text

You are reading way too much into all this. Its a date not you trying to be Sherlock Holmes solving a mystery

 

[Ryan Adams]

ok. so apparently her roommate had already bought her 160 dollar tickets to a charity event for her work. she said in these words. "i would much rather go with you but Keri probably won't let me go because someond already bought 160 dollar tickets for me but im totally uunprepared for it" how should I respond

 

[marmel75]

ok. so apparently her roommate had already bought her 160 dollar tickets to a charity event for her work. she said in these words. "i would much rather go with you but Keri probably won't let me go because someond already bought 160 dollar tickets for me but im totally uunprepared for it" how should I respond

Let the games begin. You should start by learning to stand on your own two feet. I mena you are going to go on a date and then every 5 minutes you are going to run into the bathroom to post something on the forum about what this means or what do I do in this situation? Are you going to be banging a chick and post questions on the forum about how to do something while its happening?

Cmon bro...its one thing to ask for advice its another thing to ask every time something minor happens.

 

[Ryan Adams]

I mean it's still up in the air but how should I respond to this. I'm not good with woman obviously so I look to you guys for advice. i mean what she said isn't necessarily a bad thing I think?

 

[Stallionstud]

She is jerking your chain bro, be aloof.

 

[Ryan Adams]

fvckin bi5chez man sucks being a "nice" guy. I hate playing the "game"

 

[Ryan Adams]

update: so she actually ditched her friend to come to go with me to the outing. it couldn't of gone better the entire I mean entire night she was clingjng on me literally. holding my hand etc etc. we slept in the same bed. she still wouldn't give it up though. only made out. then I'm the morning I dropped her off and we kissed etc. it went fantastic. I didn't see her look at her phone not one time. i think she is the rare type of girl who isn't glued to her phone like most.