"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well this board was made to help guys who need help so I come on here and ask lol. yeah royally fvcked up by not putting my number in her phone I think she pulled her phone out infrknt of .e on purpose now that I think of it.

I can tell by her personality she's not slutty and I've heard.
Thats not the type of help we are here to provide. This is common sense 101 and shouldn't require any help...

There is no way to help if you refuse to take the necessary actions to start the process.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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your posts are constand "hold my hand posts" @Ryan Adams , your not practicing FCK ALL or you would have gone for what you wanted with this chick and either failed or got a result..

you are not "outcome independent", you are scared of the outcome
 

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your exactly right. I'm scared to get the answer so I put everything off.
 
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we chatted a little bit yesterday. I then asked her out saturday to which I got 0 response. i take that as a nice way of saying no?
in person she shows all signs of being interested by body language etc.
 

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we chatted a little bit yesterday. I then asked her out saturday to which I got 0 response. i take that as a nice way of saying no?
in person she shows all signs of being interested by body language etc.
Wait what? How did you chat? You Facebooked her didn’t you?

Weaaaaak move. Learn from it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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no we were chatting over Snapchat and I mentioned it. she asked where the outing was i said where it was and I just got no response.

in retrospect I should of called. fvck it I don't give a fvck I'll call her Fri and ask again
 

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Oh you had her Snapchat? Thats good. I thought you had nothing. Now you got her number?

Where did you suggest going?
 

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I have her snap, number,Facebook.
there was a party bus with a bunch of us going sat to a nicer place in the city. and I don't wanna be a 3rd wheel so I mentioned to her if she wants to go and that it'll be fun. she asked oh cool where?! I told her where and she just never responded. to be honest she always abruptly leaves convos. she apparently does it with everyone from what her friend was saying about her.
 

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update: so I called and viola she was ecstatic and said yes. lol so weird she didn't respond to my text asking but when I called she was happy as can be.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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fvckn weird she wouldn't respond through text but answered the call and seemed happy
 

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If she actually shows up, than yes it is weird to me as well. She may still flake.
Maybe you conveyed confidence. When/if she shows keep that up. Don’t faulter
 

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she always abruptly leaves conversations like supposedly she does that all the time over text
 

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she always abruptly leaves conversations like supposedly she does that all the time over text
You are reading way too much into all this. Its a date not you trying to be Sherlock Holmes solving a mystery
 

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ok. so apparently her roommate had already bought her 160 dollar tickets to a charity event for her work. she said in these words. "i would much rather go with you but Keri probably won't let me go because someond already bought 160 dollar tickets for me but im totally uunprepared for it" how should I respond
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok. so apparently her roommate had already bought her 160 dollar tickets to a charity event for her work. she said in these words. "i would much rather go with you but Keri probably won't let me go because someond already bought 160 dollar tickets for me but im totally uunprepared for it" how should I respond
Let the games begin. You should start by learning to stand on your own two feet. I mena you are going to go on a date and then every 5 minutes you are going to run into the bathroom to post something on the forum about what this means or what do I do in this situation? Are you going to be banging a chick and post questions on the forum about how to do something while its happening?

Cmon bro...its one thing to ask for advice its another thing to ask every time something minor happens.
 

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I mean it's still up in the air but how should I respond to this. I'm not good with woman obviously so I look to you guys for advice. i mean what she said isn't necessarily a bad thing I think?
 

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fvckin bi5chez man sucks being a "nice" guy. I hate playing the "game"
 

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update: so she actually ditched her friend to come to go with me to the outing. it couldn't of gone better the entire I mean entire night she was clingjng on me literally. holding my hand etc etc. we slept in the same bed. she still wouldn't give it up though. only made out. then I'm the morning I dropped her off and we kissed etc. it went fantastic. I didn't see her look at her phone not one time. i think she is the rare type of girl who isn't glued to her phone like most.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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