potential new plate?

[Ryan Adams]

ok nexted the chick I was obsessed over. she's a smoker with daddy issues so it's just not worth my time. well i went out last night and met up with my buddy who had his gf and her random friend. me and her chatted hit up hit it off quite well. she was flirting with a bunch of guys as well. as she is very attractive. but kept coming up to me when I was talking to a friend of mine and. sitting next to me basically letting me know she was there. then 10 min later would get up talk and sit back down. the obvious signs she atleast thought I was attractive was laughing at every joke I said and when I said the jokes she always would grab my arm every time she laughed. and faked tiny drama situations so I could help her. example: her Snapchat froze and she was making a big deal out of it to me etc etc. is this enough to make her a potential plate? I didn't get her number and the bye was just a simple hug.

 

[Stallionstud]

Your going to have to make a move on her. Do not ask anyone for her number. You missed your first opportunity with her, now you need to find out where the next place you’ll see her is.

A lot of ways to do that. I personally wouldn’t tilt my hand to my friend or his girlfriend though.

 

[Ryan Adams]

gonna have to do the old Facebook add and messaging to get her num?

 

[Stallionstud]

You’re starting on the wrong foot by doing that. It may work out, it’ll be more uphill than it needed to be. She basically already handed you her phone. What do you think 100% of men here would do with that?

 

[Ryan Adams]

yeah well im a complete idiot.... hahaha

 

[Stallionstud]

yeah well im a complete idiot.... hahaha

I screwed up this weekend too. If I was you i’d Spend a week trying to run into her “by chance”.

Here’s an example of patients. A girl I work with added me on Facebook, I didn’t have a good way to get on the right foot with her until she liked me on bumble. Instantly Facebooked her and asked her out. Took me two weeks though trying to find the right approach even though I knew what was up.

 

[Ryan Adams]

yeah I know what bars she goes to so I'll go there Fri night

 

[JALX95]

Tbh I've been in this situation plenty of times before where I've had akward goodbyes and meant to get a girls number because she seemed into me.

If I were you I wouldn't ask your friend or his girlfriend on your behalf, but I would see if she has some kind of instagram and follow her. A lot of people think that is "creepy" but if I girl I liked followed me on instagram, I'd be flattered not start thinking about how it was weird she searched for me.

Also instagram is much more casual than facebook so you eliminate a bit of perceived desparation

 

[Ryan Adams]

thing is she's kind of a flirty girl in general so its hard to tell if shes into me... my friend told her I said she was cute and she like ignored it and changed the subject he said lol

 

[lizardking82]

Dude, you haven't even kissed her and you're talking about potential plate LOL

 

[Ryan Adams]

yeah key word "potential"

 

[lizardking82]

Potential plate is a concept that comes after you have kissed AND banged the girl once AND well and you see signs she wants more and more. She laughed at your jokes and touched you a couple of times. Signs of flirting, not signs of potential plate. Get off that train and wait for your next chance to get physical and if it happens, we can talk about a potential plate. At this point, you're feeding yourself an empty bowl.

 

[Ryan Adams]

she's definitely not a slut so pretty sure she's one of those chicks who i would have to spend ALOT of time with to bang

 

[lizardking82]

No, she's not, Ryan. And if you bang a chick quickly, it doesn't necessarily mean she is a slut, you should change that concept, too. It doesn't matter if it's a slut or not, the concept of yourself bangin' her regularly has already gotten to your mind while you have not even kissed her. Get off the high horse or you will fall and miss the damsel. This chick maybe likes you, you're already thinking of having kids with her LOL common, man

 

[Ryan Adams]

fvck no man lol she's cute but im not in love with the girl lol. and as a matter of fact we kissed last night a quick peck on the lips. hahah

 

[marmel75]

ok nexted the chick I was obsessed over. she's a smoker with daddy issues so it's just not worth my time. well i went out last night and met up with my buddy who had his gf and her random friend. me and her chatted hit up hit it off quite well. she was flirting with a bunch of guys as well. as she is very attractive. but kept coming up to me when I was talking to a friend of mine and. sitting next to me basically letting me know she was there. then 10 min later would get up talk and sit back down. the obvious signs she atleast thought I was attractive was laughing at every joke I said and when I said the jokes she always would grab my arm every time she laughed. and faked tiny drama situations so I could help her. example: her Snapchat froze and she was making a big deal out of it to me etc etc. is this enough to make her a potential plate? I didn't get her number and the bye was just a simple hug.

This is the stuff that drives me crazy. You dont take advantage of the opportunity right in front of you then you come on a board to ask what to do? Next time get her number and let her know you two are going to go oit sometime.

Why do guys have to make things so hard on themselves? I think some guys just like the drama as much as women.

 

[marmel75]

Tbh I've been in this situation plenty of times before where I've had akward goodbyes and meant to get a girls number because she seemed into me.

If I were you I wouldn't ask your friend or his girlfriend on your behalf, but I would see if she has some kind of instagram and follow her. A lot of people think that is "creepy" but if I girl I liked followed me on instagram, I'd be flattered not start thinking about how it was weird she searched for me.

Also instagram is much more casual than facebook so you eliminate a bit of perceived desparation

You are thinking like a guy not like a woman. To her that means orbiter.

 

[marmel75]

she's definitely not a slut so pretty sure she's one of those chicks who i would have to spend ALOT of time with to bang

How do you know? Every woman can be a woman who bangs a guy in the first hour they meet and every woman can be a woman who holds out for a month. It largely depends on the man she is with and his skill and level of game. Also the time of the month(near ovulation equals more horny) and mood that night play a large role as well. Ie, some nights a chick will be good to go and some nights she won't.

 

[Ryan Adams]

well this board was made to help guys who need help so I come on here and ask lol. yeah royally fvcked up by not putting my number in her phone I think she pulled her phone out infrknt of .e on purpose now that I think of it.

I can tell by her personality she's not slutty and I've heard.

 

[Ryan Adams]

in front*