"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Posture
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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hey, now stroke yourself relic and come pick up your mudda!Originally posted by TheRelic
C'mon guys, quit with the stupid posts, you're gonna give Alex a stroke
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Heizen
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Haha, you should have known big words would confuse tj.
Hold on... stoke is one syllable. Well, there goes any hope for you.
Do some deadlifts and possibly some goodmornings. Having a strong back greatly helps your posture.
fingers made a post on it mate, in his weapons of mass seduction. give it a search
arch your back, put your shoulders back to form a straight line
walk slower
take up as much room as you can; stand with your legs shoulder width apart, sit with your legs spread like you've got a 12" c0ck (if you haven't already got one
)Breath!
Breathing is the cornerstone of good body language. What most people do wrong is to inhale to shallow all the time, if you take deep breaths all the time it stimulate an area of calmness around you. Think about it. When you are sleeping you are inhaling slowly and deeply. When you are chased by madmen with automatic rifles you breath fast and shallow because you are paniced. Now what state do you want other people to experience with you. Panic or being calm around you. (not sleeping
)Placing the feet
Ok, most people have no clue on how they should place their feet. If you are walking you will get in imbalance if you walk with the feet slightly inwards or straight ahead. If you point them a little to the side it will make your leg look wider when you are walking without making you look ridicilous. Since my leg have hit 60 cm after all the squatting I don't do this anymore.
The arms
Okey, there are some people who believe they should swing alot witht hem or keeping them to the side. The truth is that to get more respect you have to lift them a little to the sides as if to show your lats. Keep an 45° angle to the side between your arms and your chest. This will indicate power which women likes
The eyes. Keep them more open than you are doing now, it will signal intelligence and manliness
Mouth
It should be a little open all the time, it signals openness and you are open to meet other people.
Leaning!
This is an important one I learnt a few months back. Most people are pretty borng when they walk. Instead of doing that sad and pathetic walk you can lean backwards and keep your chin down. It will give your eyes a very powertful look which will intimidate and give good results with women. (women love eyes!)
Remember to lean backwards, keep your arms out, breath deep, walk with your feet out, open your eyes wide and keep your mouth open and you will be the center of attention.
Training.
This will give you good posture. Acutally this was the only real tip. But feel free to try the other ones out. =)
Well good luck with your posture.