"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Posture
- Thread starter Matej850
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Warboss Alex
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tj
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hey, now stroke yourself relic and come pick up your mudda!Originally posted by TheRelic
C'mon guys, quit with the stupid posts, you're gonna give Alex a stroke
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Heizen
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Haha, you should have known big words would confuse tj.
Hold on... stoke is one syllable. Well, there goes any hope for you.
Do some deadlifts and possibly some goodmornings. Having a strong back greatly helps your posture.
fingers made a post on it mate, in his weapons of mass seduction. give it a search
arch your back, put your shoulders back to form a straight line
walk slower
take up as much room as you can; stand with your legs shoulder width apart, sit with your legs spread like you've got a 12" c0ck (if you haven't already got one
)Breath!
Breathing is the cornerstone of good body language. What most people do wrong is to inhale to shallow all the time, if you take deep breaths all the time it stimulate an area of calmness around you. Think about it. When you are sleeping you are inhaling slowly and deeply. When you are chased by madmen with automatic rifles you breath fast and shallow because you are paniced. Now what state do you want other people to experience with you. Panic or being calm around you. (not sleeping
)Placing the feet
Ok, most people have no clue on how they should place their feet. If you are walking you will get in imbalance if you walk with the feet slightly inwards or straight ahead. If you point them a little to the side it will make your leg look wider when you are walking without making you look ridicilous. Since my leg have hit 60 cm after all the squatting I don't do this anymore.
The arms
Okey, there are some people who believe they should swing alot witht hem or keeping them to the side. The truth is that to get more respect you have to lift them a little to the sides as if to show your lats. Keep an 45° angle to the side between your arms and your chest. This will indicate power which women likes
The eyes. Keep them more open than you are doing now, it will signal intelligence and manliness
Mouth
It should be a little open all the time, it signals openness and you are open to meet other people.
Leaning!
This is an important one I learnt a few months back. Most people are pretty borng when they walk. Instead of doing that sad and pathetic walk you can lean backwards and keep your chin down. It will give your eyes a very powertful look which will intimidate and give good results with women. (women love eyes!)
Remember to lean backwards, keep your arms out, breath deep, walk with your feet out, open your eyes wide and keep your mouth open and you will be the center of attention.
Training.
This will give you good posture. Acutally this was the only real tip. But feel free to try the other ones out. =)
Well good luck with your posture.