"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Posture
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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hey, now stroke yourself relic and come pick up your mudda!Originally posted by TheRelic
C'mon guys, quit with the stupid posts, you're gonna give Alex a stroke
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Heizen
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Haha, you should have known big words would confuse tj.
Hold on... stoke is one syllable. Well, there goes any hope for you.
Do some deadlifts and possibly some goodmornings. Having a strong back greatly helps your posture.
fingers made a post on it mate, in his weapons of mass seduction. give it a search
arch your back, put your shoulders back to form a straight line
walk slower
take up as much room as you can; stand with your legs shoulder width apart, sit with your legs spread like you've got a 12" c0ck (if you haven't already got one
)Breath!
Breathing is the cornerstone of good body language. What most people do wrong is to inhale to shallow all the time, if you take deep breaths all the time it stimulate an area of calmness around you. Think about it. When you are sleeping you are inhaling slowly and deeply. When you are chased by madmen with automatic rifles you breath fast and shallow because you are paniced. Now what state do you want other people to experience with you. Panic or being calm around you. (not sleeping
)Placing the feet
Ok, most people have no clue on how they should place their feet. If you are walking you will get in imbalance if you walk with the feet slightly inwards or straight ahead. If you point them a little to the side it will make your leg look wider when you are walking without making you look ridicilous. Since my leg have hit 60 cm after all the squatting I don't do this anymore.
The arms
Okey, there are some people who believe they should swing alot witht hem or keeping them to the side. The truth is that to get more respect you have to lift them a little to the sides as if to show your lats. Keep an 45° angle to the side between your arms and your chest. This will indicate power which women likes
The eyes. Keep them more open than you are doing now, it will signal intelligence and manliness
Mouth
It should be a little open all the time, it signals openness and you are open to meet other people.
Leaning!
This is an important one I learnt a few months back. Most people are pretty borng when they walk. Instead of doing that sad and pathetic walk you can lean backwards and keep your chin down. It will give your eyes a very powertful look which will intimidate and give good results with women. (women love eyes!)
Remember to lean backwards, keep your arms out, breath deep, walk with your feet out, open your eyes wide and keep your mouth open and you will be the center of attention.
Training.
This will give you good posture. Acutally this was the only real tip. But feel free to try the other ones out. =)
Well good luck with your posture.