"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Post your picture ONLY
- Thread starter stallion
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Anyways, I took this pic last night cuz I needed a new one.
I believe my posture and not smiling make me looks pretty alpha in it. Anyways, once I go off to college I'll post some pics of me and hos. Until then, this is Duke!
http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=NMALRRH
Edit: Damn, Red, thats a freakin awesome body pic you have, not to sound gay. What kind of workout/mealplan are you following. I bet girls freak out and wanna touch your abs.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...29135&imageID=14139184&Mytoken=20040810091406
(trying a slightly more rugged look than usual on this one
)This was my HS senior pic, taken a solid two years ago...Maybe I'll get a new one soon.
Squy
Master Don Juan
new pictures, a little more than a month old.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v173/gSQUYrb/DSCF0023.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v173/gSQUYrb/DSCF0048.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v173/gSQUYrb/2004_0710_132956AA.jpg
http://www.coldquads.com/gallery/stickman.html
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Here
http://www.facethejury.com/profile.asp?user_name=Vincent
PS: to mods please delete previous one, as to this one i will be able to upload more pictures
SageOFAllenAge
Senior Don Juan
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& this is me.
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=O8OQNRN&key=HXP
By the way, I've spoken a lot about my "ugly duckling" phase, so I thought I'd share that phase with you all. These pics are from about 8-9 years ago...
http://www.wade.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/miscstuff/Dan-pig.jpg
http://www.wade.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/miscstuff/Dan-geek.jpg
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/awkward.jpg
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/awkward2.jpg
Starting serious self improvement
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/lifeforce.jpg
Current Pics:
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/Picture_0052.JPG
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/Picture_0054.JPG
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/Picture_0055.JPG
If you can't see the pics, go here:
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/
Man, I really look so young, like 16-17 or something it's annoying!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Brazilian_Blues_Boy
Master Don Juan
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=NEEENQN&key=RYS
(Yeah, moderators can be cute too
)splinterkb
Master Don Juan
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=G8RQNUO&key=PLS
( I look much better with hair gelled and whatnot)
GlutusMaximus86
Master Don Juan
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That is my senior photo from about a year ago and it is airbrushed a little bit (I have a little bit of acne around my chin and nose).
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.