Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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- Thread starter stallion
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Anyways, I took this pic last night cuz I needed a new one.
I believe my posture and not smiling make me looks pretty alpha in it. Anyways, once I go off to college I'll post some pics of me and hos. Until then, this is Duke!
http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=NMALRRH
Edit: Damn, Red, thats a freakin awesome body pic you have, not to sound gay. What kind of workout/mealplan are you following. I bet girls freak out and wanna touch your abs.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...29135&imageID=14139184&Mytoken=20040810091406
(trying a slightly more rugged look than usual on this one
)This was my HS senior pic, taken a solid two years ago...Maybe I'll get a new one soon.
Squy
Master Don Juan
new pictures, a little more than a month old.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v173/gSQUYrb/DSCF0023.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v173/gSQUYrb/DSCF0048.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v173/gSQUYrb/2004_0710_132956AA.jpg
http://www.coldquads.com/gallery/stickman.html
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Here
http://www.facethejury.com/profile.asp?user_name=Vincent
PS: to mods please delete previous one, as to this one i will be able to upload more pictures
SageOFAllenAge
Senior Don Juan
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& this is me.
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=O8OQNRN&key=HXP
By the way, I've spoken a lot about my "ugly duckling" phase, so I thought I'd share that phase with you all. These pics are from about 8-9 years ago...
http://www.wade.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/miscstuff/Dan-pig.jpg
http://www.wade.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/miscstuff/Dan-geek.jpg
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/awkward.jpg
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/awkward2.jpg
Starting serious self improvement
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/lifeforce.jpg
Current Pics:
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/Picture_0052.JPG
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/Picture_0054.JPG
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/Picture_0055.JPG
If you can't see the pics, go here:
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/
Man, I really look so young, like 16-17 or something it's annoying!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Brazilian_Blues_Boy
Master Don Juan
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=NEEENQN&key=RYS
(Yeah, moderators can be cute too
)splinterkb
Master Don Juan
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=G8RQNUO&key=PLS
( I look much better with hair gelled and whatnot)
GlutusMaximus86
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 2, 2002
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That is my senior photo from about a year ago and it is airbrushed a little bit (I have a little bit of acne around my chin and nose).
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.