"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Post your picture ONLY
- Thread starter stallion
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Anyways, I took this pic last night cuz I needed a new one.
I believe my posture and not smiling make me looks pretty alpha in it. Anyways, once I go off to college I'll post some pics of me and hos. Until then, this is Duke!
http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=NMALRRH
Edit: Damn, Red, thats a freakin awesome body pic you have, not to sound gay. What kind of workout/mealplan are you following. I bet girls freak out and wanna touch your abs.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...29135&imageID=14139184&Mytoken=20040810091406
(trying a slightly more rugged look than usual on this one
)This was my HS senior pic, taken a solid two years ago...Maybe I'll get a new one soon.
Squy
Master Don Juan
new pictures, a little more than a month old.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v173/gSQUYrb/DSCF0023.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v173/gSQUYrb/DSCF0048.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v173/gSQUYrb/2004_0710_132956AA.jpg
http://www.coldquads.com/gallery/stickman.html
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Here
http://www.facethejury.com/profile.asp?user_name=Vincent
PS: to mods please delete previous one, as to this one i will be able to upload more pictures
SageOFAllenAge
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 2, 2004
- Messages
- 231
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 43
& this is me.
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=O8OQNRN&key=HXP
By the way, I've spoken a lot about my "ugly duckling" phase, so I thought I'd share that phase with you all. These pics are from about 8-9 years ago...
http://www.wade.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/miscstuff/Dan-pig.jpg
http://www.wade.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/miscstuff/Dan-geek.jpg
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/awkward.jpg
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/awkward2.jpg
Starting serious self improvement
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/lifeforce.jpg
Current Pics:
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/Picture_0052.JPG
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/Picture_0054.JPG
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/Picture_0055.JPG
If you can't see the pics, go here:
http://www.geocities.com/piratkaptenen/lifeforce/
Man, I really look so young, like 16-17 or something it's annoying!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Brazilian_Blues_Boy
Master Don Juan
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=NEEENQN&key=RYS
(Yeah, moderators can be cute too
)splinterkb
Master Don Juan
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=G8RQNUO&key=PLS
( I look much better with hair gelled and whatnot)
GlutusMaximus86
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 2, 2002
- Messages
- 638
- Reaction score
- 1
That is my senior photo from about a year ago and it is airbrushed a little bit (I have a little bit of acne around my chin and nose).
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.