"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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facadegeniality

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yeah...im 21+ gg 22 in a few months..

im short tho...abt 163 cm that's 5"4' (did i get the punctuation right?)

i still get checked for entering over 18 area
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is my link working?

Says the photo has been removed when I try and use the link.......

Face, I'm quiet a few years older than you, and I still get my ID checked! WTF!
 
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That's Vagrant right there. Boxing's next big thing. hehe I wish.

I came to sosuave to learn how to attract the females. Now I'm struggling whether I throw a good relationship for a bunch of hot chicks.

I just moved to the Bay Area. PM me DJs. I'm looking for a sidekick. Someone who'll be a good influence. =p

http://photos-017.friendster.com/e1/photos/71/03/27103017/1_271316512l.jpg
 
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vagrant said:
That's Vagrant right there. Boxing's next big thing. hehe I wish.

I came to sosuave to learn how to attract the females. Now I'm struggling whether I throw a good relationship for a bunch of hot chicks.

I just moved to the Bay Area. PM me DJs. I'm looking for a sidekick. Someone who'll be a good influence. =p

http://photos-017.friendster.com/e1/photos/71/03/27103017/1_271316512l.jpg
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Aren't you the guy who's girlfriend went clubbing and grinded on 50 dudes?

You look good.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Flabbergasped? said:
Aren't you the guy who's girlfriend went clubbing and grinded on 50 dudes?

You look good.
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haha! Only 10 dudes. 50? I wouldn't bother starting a thread.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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