"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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facadegeniality

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yeah...im 21+ gg 22 in a few months..

im short tho...abt 163 cm that's 5"4' (did i get the punctuation right?)

i still get checked for entering over 18 area
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gaucho

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Is my link working?

Says the photo has been removed when I try and use the link.......

Face, I'm quiet a few years older than you, and I still get my ID checked! WTF!
 
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vagrant

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That's Vagrant right there. Boxing's next big thing. hehe I wish.

I came to sosuave to learn how to attract the females. Now I'm struggling whether I throw a good relationship for a bunch of hot chicks.

I just moved to the Bay Area. PM me DJs. I'm looking for a sidekick. Someone who'll be a good influence. =p

http://photos-017.friendster.com/e1/photos/71/03/27103017/1_271316512l.jpg
 

Flabbergasped?

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vagrant said:
That's Vagrant right there. Boxing's next big thing. hehe I wish.

I came to sosuave to learn how to attract the females. Now I'm struggling whether I throw a good relationship for a bunch of hot chicks.

I just moved to the Bay Area. PM me DJs. I'm looking for a sidekick. Someone who'll be a good influence. =p

http://photos-017.friendster.com/e1/photos/71/03/27103017/1_271316512l.jpg
Aren't you the guy who's girlfriend went clubbing and grinded on 50 dudes?

You look good.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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vagrant

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Flabbergasped? said:
Aren't you the guy who's girlfriend went clubbing and grinded on 50 dudes?

You look good.
haha! Only 10 dudes. 50? I wouldn't bother starting a thread.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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