"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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facadegeniality

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yeah...im 21+ gg 22 in a few months..

im short tho...abt 163 cm that's 5"4' (did i get the punctuation right?)

i still get checked for entering over 18 area
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Gaucho

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Is my link working?

Says the photo has been removed when I try and use the link.......

Face, I'm quiet a few years older than you, and I still get my ID checked! WTF!
 
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That's Vagrant right there. Boxing's next big thing. hehe I wish.

I came to sosuave to learn how to attract the females. Now I'm struggling whether I throw a good relationship for a bunch of hot chicks.

I just moved to the Bay Area. PM me DJs. I'm looking for a sidekick. Someone who'll be a good influence. =p

http://photos-017.friendster.com/e1/photos/71/03/27103017/1_271316512l.jpg
 

Flabbergasped?

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vagrant said:
That's Vagrant right there. Boxing's next big thing. hehe I wish.

I came to sosuave to learn how to attract the females. Now I'm struggling whether I throw a good relationship for a bunch of hot chicks.

I just moved to the Bay Area. PM me DJs. I'm looking for a sidekick. Someone who'll be a good influence. =p

http://photos-017.friendster.com/e1/photos/71/03/27103017/1_271316512l.jpg
Aren't you the guy who's girlfriend went clubbing and grinded on 50 dudes?

You look good.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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vagrant

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Flabbergasped? said:
Aren't you the guy who's girlfriend went clubbing and grinded on 50 dudes?

You look good.
haha! Only 10 dudes. 50? I wouldn't bother starting a thread.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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