"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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facadegeniality

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yeah...im 21+ gg 22 in a few months..

im short tho...abt 163 cm that's 5"4' (did i get the punctuation right?)

i still get checked for entering over 18 area
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gaucho

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Is my link working?

Says the photo has been removed when I try and use the link.......

Face, I'm quiet a few years older than you, and I still get my ID checked! WTF!
 
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vagrant

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That's Vagrant right there. Boxing's next big thing. hehe I wish.

I came to sosuave to learn how to attract the females. Now I'm struggling whether I throw a good relationship for a bunch of hot chicks.

I just moved to the Bay Area. PM me DJs. I'm looking for a sidekick. Someone who'll be a good influence. =p

http://photos-017.friendster.com/e1/photos/71/03/27103017/1_271316512l.jpg
 

Flabbergasped?

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vagrant said:
That's Vagrant right there. Boxing's next big thing. hehe I wish.

I came to sosuave to learn how to attract the females. Now I'm struggling whether I throw a good relationship for a bunch of hot chicks.

I just moved to the Bay Area. PM me DJs. I'm looking for a sidekick. Someone who'll be a good influence. =p

http://photos-017.friendster.com/e1/photos/71/03/27103017/1_271316512l.jpg
Aren't you the guy who's girlfriend went clubbing and grinded on 50 dudes?

You look good.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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vagrant

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Flabbergasped? said:
Aren't you the guy who's girlfriend went clubbing and grinded on 50 dudes?

You look good.
haha! Only 10 dudes. 50? I wouldn't bother starting a thread.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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